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The Hacker House Has Grown Up

Sahin Boydas, 44, could afford to stop working after selling his company. He wanted to build again. His San Francisco hacker house offers experienced founders a setting considerably more comfortable than the shared bunk rooms associated with startup life.

Why it matters: Another venture begins under different conditions when founders already have families, financial security, and firsthand knowledge of burnout. A longer working life leaves room to reconsider how the work gets done.

Real-world signal: Vibe House SF offers stays capped at two weeks and holds events three times a week. Founder Sohrab Haghighat, 45, describes shortening his workdays to avoid neglecting his family again. He anticipates a ten-year journey with his current company.

Yes, but: These founders have unusual freedom to choose. Boydas travels home to Texas every other week, where his wife has family and other help nearby. The flexibility depends partly on resources most workers lack.

Hidden insight: Returning founders may need access to a working community without rebuilding their entire lives around it. Short stays and recurring gatherings offer one possible arrangement. The useful experiment here is whether people can remain involved in a fast-moving industry without repeating the living and working conditions of their twenties.

Takeaway: A longer career may require changing the places and routines that make participation possible.

Source: The San Francisco Standard

Shopping Without a Fixed Body in Mind

After a preventive double mastectomy, designer Carly Berlin struggled to find clothes that worked during recovery and still felt like her.

Why it matters: Menopause, illness, injury, and changes in dexterity can alter what someone needs from clothing across adulthood. Shopping becomes harder when product descriptions assume those needs will stay the same.

Real-world signal: Berlin’s marketplace, Weldun, organizes clothing around easy dressing, sensory considerations, flexible fit, and recovery. Many pieces come from existing fashion collections. Their useful features may already be there; the marketplace makes them easier to find.

Yes, but: These needs are not exclusive to older adults. That breadth is part of the idea. The launch coverage also does not establish how well the selections work for different shoppers.

Hidden insight: A retailer may keep a customer for decades while learning very little about how wearing its products has changed for them. Someone can still like the same brand but need a different fastening or waistband. Making those details searchable could help them keep shopping there through a temporary recovery or a lasting physical change.

Takeaway: Keeping a longtime customer may depend on explaining what a garment can accommodate, beyond its size.

Source: Forbes

AARP Finds Gen X at Sea

Jeanne Grubbs once teased her husband about his AARP envelope. On a Gen X cruise, she discovered partway through the trip that AARP was a sponsor. She later joined.

Why it matters: An organization can become relevant to someone before they recognize themselves among the people it serves. Here, that recognition happened through an enjoyable experience with peers.

Real-world signal: AARP’s account of the November 2025 Gen X Takeover cruise follows travelers rebuilding social lives after loss and divorce. Grubbs, now 56, says the trip helped her feel better about being in her mid-fifties. Another passenger, Stephani Forman, says she became more comfortable doing things alone afterward.

Yes, but: AARP sponsored the cruise and published these selected accounts. They cannot establish how Gen X as a whole feels about the organization or growing older.

Hidden insight: Grubbs’s change of mind began with something she wanted to do. That suggests an organization associated with later life may earn someone’s interest through a useful experience before its membership pitch means much to them.

Takeaway: The cruise gave Grubbs a reason to reconsider an organization she had previously treated as a joke.

Source: AARP

Midlife Gets a Coming-of-Age Story

In Sharon Horgan’s HBO TV series Youth, her character Alex’s son leaves for college, then comes back and eats her fancy ham. The literary agent’s anticipated period of freedom is already getting crowded.

Why it matters: Alex is in her fifties, with an established career and a bad marriage behind her. She expects those milestones to release some time for herself. Her parents need more care, her son still needs her, and work has other plans.

Real-world signal: Vulture describes a comedy that gives this stage of life the uncertainty and emotional stakes of a coming-of-age story. Alex wants to pursue authors she believes in and find another romantic relationship. Messages from her family repeatedly interrupt those attempts.

Yes, but: The show also lets Alex be vain, evasive, and ridiculous. She has trouble accepting the age of a potential date. Her frustration with midlife includes assumptions of her own.

Hidden insight: A coming-of-age story invites viewers to stay interested in someone whose judgment is still developing. Giving that treatment to a woman in her fifties makes room for more than an inspirational reinvention or a cautionary tale. Her mistakes can matter without becoming evidence that she has aged badly.

Takeaway: Notice whether stories about people in midlife allow them to be ordinary and unfinished, with something still worth following.

Source: Vulture

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

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• If you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond and not ready to fade out.

• If you’re a builder, strategist, or decision-maker trying to understand what aging really means for your product, team, city, or community.

• If you’re tired of “decline narratives” about age and are ready for something more honest, more useful, and more human.

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The Hidden Costs of Changing Your Life

After another layoff, Todd Fannin’s wife, Carrie, told him: “We’re not doing this again.” They began looking for a business they could run themselves.

Why it matters: Self-employment gave them a way to keep working without another corporate hiring decision. It also put money saved for their later years at risk in a new venture.

Real-world signal: The Fannins withdrew $300,000 from retirement savings to purchase and market deck-building franchises. Their first year was a struggle. Todd described a roughly seven-year plan to build an asset they could eventually sell.

USA Today’s reporting also follows Cynthia Hennessy, who found a lower-paid legal role after being laid off at 61. Her new schedule left time for classes, mahjong, and caring for her parents.

Yes, but: The Fannins had capital available to commit. Their route offers little reassurance to someone whose savings have already been depleted by unemployment, and business ownership brings its own uncertainty.

Hidden insight: The couple’s savings are now partly tied up in a business whose sale is meant to fund their next move. They have more say over their working lives, but the value they can recover will depend on finding a buyer.

Takeaway: The Fannins’ exit plan depends partly on a future buyer, whose willingness to pay they cannot yet know.

Source: USA Today

At 63, School Pickup Brings New Friends

A child told Barb Higgins she looked like a grandmother. Higgins wasn’t offended. She is 63 and her son, Jack, has just started kindergarten.

Why it matters: School brings parents into regular contact with people they might otherwise never meet. For Higgins and her husband, Kenny, 71, raising Jack has opened friendships with parents in their 30s and 40s.

Real-world signal: Their calendar fills with birthday parties, field trips, and dance classes. In her as-told-to Business Insider essay, Higgins describes other parents welcoming them. Jack attends a forest school where most classes happen outdoors. Higgins says preschool and kindergarten have opened up her world.

Yes, but: This is one family’s unusual experience. Higgins says she sometimes lies awake worrying about staying healthy for Jack. Her confidence in her fitness cannot settle that uncertainty.

Hidden insight: Parenthood gives this couple a ready-made way into community life. Their invitations arrive through Jack. That leaves a useful design question. What gives adults without school-age children an equally ordinary reason to join in?

Takeaway: A neighborhood can have a busy social calendar that remains surprisingly hard to enter without a child in tow.

Source: Business Insider

After Divorce, Who Does the Unpaid Work?

A marriage can last through raising children and decades of shared routines, then end. By then, the couple may have organized almost everything around staying together.

Why it matters: The Story Exchange’s coverage of divorce after 50 raises a question that years married cannot answer. Do both people want the remaining years to look like the ones before?

Real-world signal: Using 2022 survey data, Bowling Green State University researchers examined adults 50 and older who had divorced in the previous year and remained divorced. Among those ending a first marriage, the median duration was 29 years; a quarter had been married for at least 37 years.

Those figures describe people who divorced, not the likelihood that any long marriage will end.

Yes, but: The university’s 2024 analysis cautioned against describing an uninterrupted divorce boom across everyone over 50: the overall gray-divorce rate had largely leveled off, with a slight decline among those 50–64.

Hidden insight: A long marriage can leave practical arrangements almost invisible: whose job determined where to live, who handles bills, who would help after surgery. Separation makes those arrangements explicit again. Some tasks can be divided; others may require paid help or someone else nearby. Planning for a longer life together can conceal how much each person’s plan depends on the other’s unpaid work.

Takeaway: A later-life separation changes the household’s daily workload as well as its budget.

Source: The Story Exchange; Bowling Green State University

Some Vacant Homes Need More Than Buyers

More people can be living into their 80s while more homes become vacant as older households end. Both can happen at once.

Why it matters: Housing demand depends on how people form, share, and leave households. Counting the growing older population alone misses part of what happens to the homes they occupy.

Real-world signal: Harvard’s Joint Center for Housing Studies projects that households headed by someone 80 or older will double over the next two decades. Yet the number of households headed by baby boomers fell by 3.5 million between 2015 and 2025, as deaths outweighed the generation’s increasing tendency to live alone or without a partner.

Yes, but: Homes released by older households will reduce the need for new construction only if they return to usable supply. Harvard warns that some may need substantial rehabilitation or become obsolete.

Hidden insight: This makes the condition of an older owner’s home relevant to the next household’s options. A house can remain on the map without being ready for someone to move into; the repair bill becomes part of making it available again.

Takeaway: A coming wave of available homes offers no automatic guarantee of affordable, move-in-ready housing.

Source: Harvard Joint Center for Housing Studies

She Built the Magazine She Wanted to Read

The first cover of Geezer featured cassette tapes. Inside were stories about radical kindness, senior dogs, and San Francisco’s Drag Laureate.

Why it matters: Founder Laura LeBleu wanted something she wasn’t finding on the magazine rack. Creating it herself meant deciding what deserved space, how it should look, and what kind of reading experience was worth paying for.

Real-world signal: LeBleu, 54, told Zoomer she wanted a culture magazine that addressed midlife experiences nobody had warned her generation about. She chose print, on substantial 80-pound paper, and funds the publication herself.

Yes, but: One founder’s taste cannot stand in for an entire generation. The profile does not establish whether the magazine can sustain itself financially.

Hidden insight: The choice of paper matters. LeBleu is asking readers who have lived through decades of digital change to spend time with a physical object. A product for this audience needn’t prove its relevance by chasing the newest format.

Takeaway: The audience test is whether readers want the next issue after the nostalgia of the first cover wears off.

Source: Zoomer

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

Rethink Aging With Us

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• If you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond and not ready to fade out.

• If you’re a builder, strategist, or decision-maker trying to understand what aging really means for your product, team, city, or community.

• If you’re tired of “decline narratives” about age and are ready for something more honest, more useful, and more human.

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Millennials Reached the Top. Now What?

Millennials reached management. Many are now wondering what exactly they reached. They make up one-third of the American workforce and slightly outnumber Gen X in management roles. Yet 76% say they are questioning their career path.

Why it matters: The familiar career promise was that experience would eventually produce security. Millennials reached this stage after entering work during the Great Recession, moving into management around the pandemic and watching AI introduce another round of uncertainty.

Real-world signal: Millennials hold 38% of management roles, compared with 36% for Gen X. More than one in four executives are millennials. At the same time, burnout appears in their Glassdoor reviews 44% more often than it does for other generations. Job-insecurity language appears 47% more often.

Economist Chris Martin calls one response “stability stacking”: adding skills, income sources, professional visibility and outside relationships while keeping the current job.

Yes, but: Glassdoor’s review data captures the current moment. It cannot show whether Millennials feel worse than Gen X did at the same age using the same measurement.

Hidden insight: Some of the work that protects a career now happens outside the job — learning another skill, maintaining contacts or testing another source of income before it becomes necessary.

Takeaway: Job security now includes what you could do next without waiting for a layoff.

Source: Fortune

The Job Where 55 Is an Advantage

Craig Celek became a flight attendant at 55 after careers in publishing and retail. Delta counted those years as useful experience. Half the people in his tryout group were older than 45. One was 62.

Why it matters: Hiring systems often measure experience against the job someone already held. Cabin service gave Celek’s retail background a new setting: anxious customers, disrupted plans and hundreds of people sharing a confined space.

Real-world signal: During severe weather, a flight from Atlanta to New York took 11 hours instead of two. Celek and the crew managed 250 passengers through the delay. Since April, he has worked 209 flights, including 29 long-haul routes. His schedule also allows his 92-year-old father to travel with him free. They recently visited Dublin and Paris.

Yes, but: Airlines have a clear use for customer-service experience and established training programs for new hires. Applicants making similar changes elsewhere may encounter employers that expect the same title to appear on their résumés.

Hidden insight: Patience, emotional control and judgment develop over time. Hiring screens built around matching titles can miss them.

Takeaway: Hiring teams may overlook experienced candidates when they search only for someone who has already held the job.

Source: Business Insider

When Grandma Uploads the Grandkids to AI

Ben Metcalfe visited his grandparents and found an AI-generated caricature of a family photo hanging in their kitchen. Another parent received images from her mother showing her toddlers with Santa and aboard the Polar Express. Grok had made their cheeks fuller, their eyes glossier and the lighting pristine. Everyone meant well. The parents were still unsettled.

Why it matters: Family photo rules once focused on where an image could be posted. Generative AI adds another decision: who may upload a child’s face, alter it and provide it to an AI company.

Real-world signal: Parents described grandparents, friends and in-laws creating coloring pages, holiday scenes and revised family portraits with children’s faces.

Jen, a 32-year-old mother whose name was changed by Business Insider, had relatives and friends generate several images of her toddlers. She worried about what could happen to the original photos after they were uploaded.

Yes, but: Families do not have a settled rulebook. Tool policies differ, the risks are difficult to evaluate, and a playful image made for a refrigerator may not feel like a consequential privacy decision to the person creating it.

Hidden insight: A family photo has become reusable source material. Every relative with a copy can create another version and upload the original somewhere the parent never chose.

Takeaway: Families may need rules for uploading children’s faces, not only rules for posting the finished image.

Source: Business Insider

Buy the Home, Lease the Ground

Leanne and Greg Paul have moved into a land-lease community in Victoria’s Macedon Ranges in Australia. They are 56 and 53, both still working, and younger than most residents of the 245-home lifestyle village.

Why it matters: Lifestyle communities are usually associated with retirement. The Pauls are making that housing choice while work remains part of their daily lives.

Real-world signal: Under the type of site agreement used in Victorian residential parks and lifestyle villages, a resident owns the dwelling and rents the site beneath it. Consumer Affairs Victoria says the agreement must explain how site rent may increase. Rent cannot be raised more than once every 12 months, although the method used to calculate an increase depends on the contract.

Yes, but: The house purchase and the site agreement are separate financial commitments. Future rent increases can affect the cost of staying even after the dwelling itself has been paid for.

Hidden insight: Land-lease housing separates two things homeowners usually buy together: the home they use and the ground beneath it. That changes what ownership means and which costs continue.

Takeaway: The site agreement deserves the same attention as the price of the house.

Sources: Australian Financial Review, Consumer Affairs Victoria

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

Rethink Aging With Us

This is for you and you’re in the right place:

• If you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond and not ready to fade out.

• If you’re a builder, strategist, or decision-maker trying to understand what aging really means for your product, team, city, or community.

• If you’re tired of “decline narratives” about age and are ready for something more honest, more useful, and more human.

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Personal note: I sent an email 4 weeks ago today that I’d be taking the week off because both my personal and professional schedules became totally jam-packed. Then it turned into a month! But for good reasons… one of which is that my dad was able to get in for a surgery to remove cancer from his liver. Things went very well and we’ve passed another milestone on the long journey of his Stage 4 colon cancer diagnosis 11 months ago. 🙌

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Dating Changed While You Were Away

A hypothetical 52-year-old returns to dating after a long marriage. She runs a business, books international trips from her phone and manages a complicated household calendar. Technology isn’t the problem. She may need help understanding what dating became while she was gone.

Why it matters: More years of adulthood create more opportunities to re-enter parts of life that once seemed settled. Divorce or widowhood can put someone back at a beginning with decades more experience than they had the first time.

Real-world signal: A nationally representative SSRS survey of 2,012 U.S. adults found that 37% had tried online dating. The share fell to 20% among adults 50 and older, with only a slim amount of that age group currently using a dating site or app. Among people who had used online dating, more than half said their main reason was to find an exclusive romantic partner.

Yes, but: Low adoption doesn’t tell us why people stay away. Some may dislike the products. Others may have no interest in dating. Better design cannot solve loneliness, safety concerns or the ordinary difficulty of meeting someone compatible.

Hidden insight: Re-entry is its own kind of user experience. Someone can be new to online dating without being new to digital life. An app that treats those as the same problem can patronize people while failing to explain the part that is actually unfamiliar.

Takeaway: Help returning users learn what changed without assuming they need basic digital help.

Source: Grit Daily

Online Shopping Looks Less Generational

For Gen X shoppers in Greece, buying online barely qualifies as a generational distinction anymore. 8 out of 10 shoppers had done it within the previous six months — the same share as Millennials.

Why it matters: An unfamiliar digital experience can tell us little about someone’s broader comfort with technology. A person in their 50s may already have decades of experience banking, booking travel, shopping and communicating online.

Real-world signal: Focus Bari surveyed Greek internet users ages 16–64 and found online purchasing rates of 82% among both Gen X and Millennials, compared with 76% for Gen Z. Millennials averaged 29 purchases over six months and Gen X averaged 23.

Yes, but: This is one market and its purchase rates shouldn’t be treated as universal generational behavior.

Hidden insight: The same person can be completely at home buying airline tickets online and feel lost opening an AI tool for the first time. A single label about digital ability misses those differences.

Takeaway: Marketers may learn more from what customers already do online than from their generational label.

Source: To Vima

AI Makes Experts Beginners Again

The oldest Gen X workers began their careers before the web became ordinary. Now they’re opening generative AI tools alongside colleagues who weren’t born when those careers started.

Why it matters: A long career can produce an odd mix of expertise and “beginnerhood”. Someone may know the organization, customers and profession better than almost anyone in the room while learning a new tool at roughly the same time as everyone else.

Real-world signal: CWI Works’ 2026 Longevity Workforce Outlook survey found that 71% of Gen X respondents had used generative AI, close to the 74% of Millennials who said the same. 4 out of 10 Gen X respondents were very or extremely interested in learning newer AI and digital skills.

The same survey found that 76% of U.S. adults believe people assume older workers are less comfortable with new technology.

Yes, but: Trying generative AI says little about how confidently or effectively someone uses it. Access to useful training also varies considerably by employer and occupation.

Hidden insight: A 55-year-old may have another decade of work ahead. The AI tool being taught this year may be replaced much sooner. Training decisions often assume the opposite.

Takeaway: Training an experienced employee can pay off for years, even if the specific technology changes again.

Source: Katie Couric Media

Why This CEO Scrolls TikTok

Virgin Group CEO Josh Bayliss is 53 and regularly watches TikTok. He told Fortune that people in their 20s are shaping culture, and understanding what they care about is part of running businesses that hope to serve them.

Why it matters: Seniority can reduce the casual contact that once kept someone current. Customers, workplace norms and technology continue to change even as a leader’s immediate circle becomes more established.

Real-world signal: Bayliss oversees businesses spanning an airline, gyms, hotels, telecommunications and commercial space tourism. AT&T CEO John Stankey takes a more structured approach, seeking a younger “reverse mentor” to help him understand how younger people think and use technology.

Yes, but: People in their 20s don’t share one worldview, and TikTok isn’t a representative sample of a generation. Watching younger people can become another form of stereotyping if curiosity turns into demographic shorthand.

Hidden insight: Stankey’s children have moved out, so he now deliberately seeks more contact with people in their 20s. Reverse mentoring restores an everyday source of cultural knowledge that senior leaders may no longer encounter on their own.

Takeaway: As careers lengthen, leaders may need to seek out the younger colleagues and customers they once encountered naturally.

Source: Fortune

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

Rethink Aging With Us

This is for you and you’re in the right place:

• If you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond and not ready to fade out.

• If you’re a builder, strategist, or decision-maker trying to understand what aging really means for your product, team, city, or community.

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Too Experienced at 47?

Jamie Klingler is 47, has 25 years of experience across media, publishing and events, and was named the UK’s ninth-best communicator by PR Week in 2021. In 2026, she says she can’t get her resume through what she calls “AI gatekeepers.”

Why it matters: Klingler figures she has at least 15 more working years ahead of her, maybe 30. Yet some of the things that show she’s experienced — years worked, older accomplishments, a long professional history — may work against her before anyone meets her.

Real-world signal: Klingler says she applied to at least eight companies a week over the past year and had just three interviews, all through personal referrals. She has been advised to remove her graduation date, remove experience working outside Britain and play down parts of her 25-year career to improve her compatibility with automated screening.

Yes, but: One person’s search doesn’t establish that AI hiring tools systematically reject women over 45. Age bias predates automated recruiting, and a difficult labor market can produce similar outcomes. Her experience still exposes a peculiar workaround: making a long career look shorter so a hiring system will consider it.

Hidden insight: Automated matching works from clean, comparable signals. Longer careers can produce something messier. Like career changes, gaps, older skills, newer skills and decades of experience that don’t fit neatly into one job description. The resume can get more complicated as the worker becomes more capable.

Takeaway: Hiring for longer working lives may require getting better at recognizing careers that no longer follow a tidy timeline.

Source: The New World

She’s Still On Call

Last week, Wendy Wisner’s mother locked two doors from the inside of her apartment. Wisner called an emergency handyman, bought new doorknobs and figured out how to disable the others so it wouldn’t happen again. Her mother already has round-the-clock care.

Why it matters: Paid care can cover cooking, cleaning, grooming and safety while leaving a second layer of work with the family. Wisner works full time, has two children and lives five minutes from her mother. She is still the person who keeps the arrangement moving.

Real-world signal: Her mother, who has Alzheimer’s, sends about 20 to 30 texts and makes one to 10 phone calls a day. Wisner takes her to every doctor’s appointment, handles insurance calls and bills, manages medications and pharmacy pickups, fills her medication trays each week for the aides, and spends one afternoon a week with her. There is almost always some kind of emergency.

Yes, but: Wisner secured full-time in-home care through Medicaid after nine months of red tape. Many families never get that much help. Her story comes from a relatively supported arrangement, which makes the remaining workload more striking.

Hidden insight: We count care in hours of assistance. Families often experience it as responsibility. Someone still has to know which prescription is running out, why the aide is calling and which doorknob needs replacing before tonight.

Takeaway: Getting 24-hour care doesn’t necessarily get the family coordinator off the phone.

Source: Business Insider

Grandkids Are Changing Where Boomers Move

“Baby chasers” sounds like a made-up real-estate segment. Apparently it isn’t. Housing researchers use the term for retirees relocating to be near their grandchildren.

Why it matters: Family geography is becoming part of the housing market at both ends. Older adults may relocate after decades in one home just as their adult children reach housing milestones later than previous generations did.

Real-world signal: Baby boomers account for roughly 42% of home purchases and 55% of sales, according to National Association of Realtors data cited by Fortune. The median first-time buyer is now 40. Kelley Blue Book Homes CEO John Liss calls some older millennials “first-time sellers”. These are people squeezed by high mortgage rates into starter homes they’ve outgrown, sometimes after adding another child.

Yes, but: Interest rates, supply and accumulated home equity explain plenty of this movement. KBB Homes also has a business interest in making these groups legible as a market. The labels are useful because they describe behavior, not because everyone born in the same decades behaves alike.

Hidden insight: Age once offered a rough clue about where someone was in the housing cycle. A 40-year-old first-time buyer and a retiree moving closer to grandchildren make that shorthand much less useful. Family circumstance tells you more.

Takeaway: For some buyers, knowing where the kids and grandkids live tells you more than knowing their age.

Source: Fortune

What Do You Sell a 50-Year-Old?

Gen X is entering its peak earning and spending years while wellness brands are still figuring out whether to speak to the cohort as young, old or somewhere in between.

Why it matters: Age has long been an easy way to segment products. It gets less useful when someone wants effective, convenient products that help them age well without feeling like those products were designed only for younger users.

Real-world signal: Gen X accounted for $15.2 trillion in global spending in 2025, according to NielsenIQ data cited by Fitt Insider, and is projected to surpass $20 trillion by 2033. The cohort accounts for more than a third of spending on consumer packaged goods and quick-service restaurants and is buying into beauty, personal care and healthier food while looking for products that feel relevant to them.

Yes, but: Spending power doesn’t make Gen X one market. Income, health, household structure and personal taste vary enormously inside any generation. That’s part of the problem with using generation alone as a design brief.

Hidden insight: “Young” and “old” are doing too much work in consumer design. Someone can care about appearance, convenience, healthy food and feeling good today without any of those needs telling you how old the product should make them feel.

Takeaway: A birth year is a pretty thin explanation for why someone buys a wellness product.

Source: Fitt Insider

The Longevity Gap Starts at Work

AI can help spot disease earlier, speed research and extend healthy life. It can also change who has the stable work, income and insurance needed to benefit from those advances.

Why it matters: Life expectancy is usually discussed as a health outcome. Some of the conditions that shape it accumulate during ordinary working years through earnings, housing, insurance and the ability to pay for prevention.

Real-world signal: Economist Keith Lee points to research showing that at age 40, men in the richest 1% in the U.S. had a life expectancy 14.6 years longer than men in the poorest 1%. For women, the gap was 10.1 years. He also cites IMF estimates that about 60% of jobs in advanced economies are exposed to AI.

Yes, but: Exposure is not job loss. The World Economic Forum projects 170 million jobs created and 92 million displaced worldwide between 2025 and 2030, a net gain of 78 million. The disruption still lands on individual careers. A replacement job somewhere else in the economy doesn’t restore the savings or benefits lost during someone’s employment gap.

Hidden insight: Two people can reach the same age carrying very different histories into it. One may have had decades of steady contributions, preventive care and appreciating housing. Another may arrive after layoffs, gaps in coverage and interrupted savings. By then, age is one of the least revealing things they have in common.

Takeaway: A longer-life financial plan looks different after several stretches without steady work or benefits.

Source: The Economy

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

Rethink Aging With Us

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• If you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond and not ready to fade out.

• If you’re a builder, strategist, or decision-maker trying to understand what aging really means for your product, team, city, or community.

• If you’re tired of “decline narratives” about age and are ready for something more honest, more useful, and more human.

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Caregiving Has Entered the Workday

Caregiving does not always look like leaving a career. It may look like keeping the career and taking a doctor’s call in the hallway. Or moving a meeting. Or arriving late again.

Why it matters: Many workplace benefits were built for an absence with a beginning and an end. Care for an older parent is often less orderly. It keeps entering the week wherever it can.

Real-world signal: Nearly one in four Gen X workers spends the equivalent of at least two full workdays each week caregiving, according to research reported by BenefitsPRO.

The number of family caregivers helping older adults rose 32% between 2011 and 2022, from 18.2 million to 24.1 million. Adult children make up 40.7% of them.

The financial cost may arrive slowly, then all at once. Conrad Miles had saved $200,000 for retirement. By the time he died at 93, care and living expenses had reduced it to $30,000.

That is one family’s experience, not a forecast for every inheritance. It does show how easily the expected transfer of wealth can first become a long period of spending and care.

Yes, but: A flexible schedule can help someone keep working. It cannot make paid care affordable or produce another relative to share the load.

Hidden insight: Caregiving policies often assume that employees need time away. Many caregivers need something harder to put in a handbook: permission to remain slightly unpredictable for a long time.

The appointment will not always be at 11:20. There will be another one.

Takeaway: A workplace can offer caregiving benefits and still make their daily use feel risky.

Source: BenefitsPRO, Fortune

Retirement Starts Without Permission

A person can spend decades planning to retire at 65 and still be retired at 57. Sometimes a layoff decides. Sometimes health does. Sometimes another person’s health does.

Why it matters: “Work longer” is sound financial advice. It is also advice that assumes the job, body, and household will cooperate.

Real-world signal: A TIAA Institute survey reached 1,591 adults ages 22 to 75. The retirees in the survey had stopped working at an average age of 57. Fifty-two percent retired earlier than expected. Only 6% retired later.

Roughly three-quarters regretted not saving earlier, and nearly three-quarters wished they had saved more.

The financial plan may then run in the other direction. Barron’s columnist Elizabeth O’Brien used an actuarial calculator and found that she had a 33% chance of reaching 95, the default ending used in her own plan.

A plan can therefore ask someone to prepare for nearly four decades without a paycheck, even when the first of those decades was never part of the plan.

Yes, but: Age 95 is not an absurd planning horizon. Some people will reach it. In a couple, one spouse may live many years longer than the other. Running out of money late in life is not a risk most people can correct afterward.

Hidden insight: Retirement projections devote enormous care to the final year. The first year may still be entered as though a person gets to choose it.

USA Today reports that Surya Kolluri of the TIAA Institute recommends running three scenarios: retirement at 57, 62, and 65. That is less satisfying than one clean number. It is probably closer to the life being planned.

Takeaway: The useful retirement plan may be the one built around more than one possible beginning.

Source: USA Today, Barron’s

Happy Hour Needed a Law

“My friends and I love happy hour,” Anita LeBrun told Minnesota lawmakers. LeBrun is 82. At Amira Choice, the senior community where she lives, residents could pour their own alcohol. Employees could not serve it to them. So LeBrun practiced her testimony in front of a mirror and went to the capitol.

Why it matters: Assisted living is regulated as a place of care. It is also where people live, invite friends over, and gather before dinner. Those two facts can become surprisingly difficult to hold at the same time.

Real-world signal: Amira Choice had held happy hour twice a week until city officials said it needed an additional liquor license. The license could cost between $1,000 and $6,700 annually, depending on the permit.

The bill LeBrun supported passed with bipartisan backing and was signed July 14. Beginning August 1, qualifying nursing homes and assisted-living communities may serve alcohol at resident events without obtaining the additional license, provided they follow the law’s conditions.

Yes, but: Alcohol can interact with medication. Some residents may need limits or should not drink at all. The new law does not settle those individual decisions. It does remove a different kind of barrier.

Hidden insight: The old rule did not stop a resident from drinking alone in an apartment. It stopped an employee from handing that resident a glass of wine in a room with neighbors. The disputed part was the social part.

Takeaway: Some freedoms become easier to see only after a rule turns them into a problem.

Source: The Washington Post

Guided Travel Leaves Room to Wander

“Guided travel that’s a little less guided.” Jennifer Halboth, CEO of Riverside Luxury Cruises, uses that phrase to describe what Gen X travelers are asking for. The logistics can be organized. Tuesday afternoon does not have to be.

Why it matters: Travel products often divide customers into two camps: people who want everything handled and people who want independence. River-cruise companies are encountering travelers who do not see a conflict between the two.

Real-world signal: Gen X now accounts for 20% of bookings across Globus brands, including Avalon Waterways. Sales from the generation rose 15% over the past year.

Some customers are choosing shorter sailings and active excursions. Others use the ship as a hotel, skip the organized outing, and spend the day ashore on their own.

Even the sales call is changing. Viking says boomer callers may want to talk about their weekend before getting down to the trip. Gen X callers often want the necessary information and a quick goodbye. Travel advisers have had to notice the difference.

Yes, but: Cruise lines have not invented an entirely new form of travel for Gen X. Some are drawing more attention to flexibility that was already available. And river cruising remains an expensive way to test a broad claim about a generation. Still, the change in emphasis is worth noting.

Hidden insight: These travelers do not appear to want less help. They want help with the parts that feel like work: the bed, the transfers, the luggage, the unfamiliar route. What happens after breakfast is another matter.

Takeaway: A product can do more for the customer while deciding less for them.

Source: Travel Weekly

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

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This Week’s Pattern

Two people can turn 55 in the same week and have almost nothing else in common. One might have a teenager at home. The other might be caring for a parent, trying to leave a job, starting over somewhere new, or figuring out what to do with a house that no longer fits.

Age still tells us how long someone has lived. It is becoming less useful for guessing what the rest of that life looks like.

A Birthday Tells Us Less

Atlantic writer Julie Beck recently found herself wondering whether 35 counted as middle age. Friends told her she was “still young.” She got stuck on the word still.

Why it matters: Middle age once suggested a fairly recognizable place in life. You had settled into work, perhaps raised children, and were somewhere between building a life and winding one down. Plenty of people no longer follow that sequence.

Real-world signal: Surveys put the beginning of middle age anywhere from 35 to 49. More surprisingly, 55 percent of Americans consider 65 middle-aged. Psychologist Margie Lachman is less interested in birthdays than in the years when both younger and older people depend on you. “Chronological age does not tell you much about anybody, except how long they’ve lived,” she said.

Yes, but: Some of this slipperiness comes from discomfort. People keep pushing middle age outward because the label still carries hints of decline.

Hidden insight: Employers, insurers, healthcare providers, and marketers continue to collect age because it is simple and standardized. The lives behind that number have become harder to standardize. One 55-year-old may need flexibility for a child; another may need it for a parent; another may not need it at all.

Takeaway: A birthday is a fact. It is no longer much of a biography.

Source: The Atlantic

The Audience Never Left

Amy Fleming was back in a club at 4 a.m. at age 51. She had teenagers, older relatives, and the usual demands of middle life waiting outside. For a few hours, none of that was the point.

Why it matters: People often keep the music, friendships, and rituals they formed when they were younger. Cultural spaces have been slower to accept that their original audience may still want to show up.

Real-world signal: A University of Leeds study looked at 136 women ages 40 to 65 who attended raves. Eighty-two percent had been doing it for more than 20 years. They talked about friendship, energy, belonging, and relief from low moods. Study co-author Alinka Greasley summed it up simply: “The culture as a whole has aged.”

Yes, but: Life still gets in the way. Some women stopped clubbing for years while they raised children or managed work and care. A 4 a.m. finish also lands differently at 51 than it did at 21.

Hidden insight: Some events now start at 6 p.m. and end by midnight. That may be the more interesting innovation. The organizers did not invent a watered-down version of nightlife for older people. They changed the hours and left the reason for going intact.

Takeaway: Sometimes the audience has not disappeared. The schedule just stopped working for them.

Source: The Guardian

The Replacements Aren’t Coming

A nurse can use AI to spend less time on paperwork. Someone still has to stand beside the bed. Construction, manufacturing, public services, and the skilled trades face the same limit. Much of the work cannot be reduced to what happens on a screen.

Why it matters: Employers have long counted on younger workers arriving as older employees leave. That replacement cycle becomes less dependable when the labor force itself stops growing.

Real-world signal: Indeed Hiring Lab projects that the United States could have nearly 6 million fewer workers by 2032. Shortages are expected to hit healthcare, construction, engineering, manufacturing, public service, and the trades especially hard. The federal government also projects a shortage of more than 140,000 full-time physicians by 2038. “We can no longer rely on workforce growth alone,” Indeed chief economist Svenja Gudell wrote.

Yes, but: A worker cannot be moved from one shortage to another like a piece on a board. Nurses, physicians, electricians, and technicians need years of training. Some jobs are physically hard. Experienced employees may also be caring for parents, spouses, or grandchildren.

Hidden insight: Companies may discover that retaining an older worker involves changing the job, not simply persuading the person to stay. Hours, physical demands, training, and the way knowledge gets passed along all become part of the conversation.

Takeaway: The worker an employer is trying to replace may be easier to keep than to replace.

Source: Fortune

Care Reaches the Money First

Conrad Miles moved into assisted living with about $200,000 in savings and a railroad pension. His daughter watched the balance fall. The money was “gone in a heartbeat,” she said. Roughly $30,000 remained when he died at 93.

Why it matters: The enormous transfer of wealth expected to pass from older Americans to their children is usually discussed as though the money is already waiting. For many families, years of care will get there first.

Real-world signal: A Washington Post analysis found that one in six Americans spent more than $50,000 out of pocket on care during the final decade of life. One in 20 spent more than $100,000. Among the poorest fifth, 41 percent had nothing left after care costs. In 2025, the median annual price of a private assisted-living room was about $74,400.

Yes, but: The uncertainty may be as difficult as the expense. Some people need little paid help. Nearly one in five will need intensive care for more than three years. Families cannot know in advance which bill is coming.

Hidden insight: Care does more than reduce an inheritance. It can reverse the expected direction of family money. Parents pay providers until their savings thin out; adult children may then begin helping the parents who once helped them.

Takeaway: The wealth-transfer story changes once the cost of dependence is included.

Source: The Washington Post

A Home Sale Changes Healthcare

A couple sells a longtime home and moves somewhere smaller. Two years later, the sale shows up again… this time in their Medicare premiums.

Why it matters: A move can make perfect sense for the people living through it and still create trouble elsewhere. Selling an appreciated home may raise taxable income enough to increase healthcare costs, even when ordinary monthly income has barely changed.

Real-world signal: Medicare looks back two years when calculating its income-related premium surcharge. One couple with a $300,000 taxable gain could see monthly premiums rise from about $406 to more than $800. Financial planner Elizabeth Gavino said the clients “had no idea it would touch their Medicare premiums.”

Yes, but: The higher premium may be temporary. Many sales will not produce a taxable gain large enough to trigger it, and the result depends on other income as well as the timing of the sale.

Hidden insight: A house can be wrong for someone’s body, household, or daily life and still be financially difficult to leave. The tax code sees a gain. Medicare sees income. The homeowner may simply see a staircase, an empty bedroom, and a reason to move.

Takeaway: Institutions can turn one ordinary life decision into several unrelated financial events.

Source: Fortune

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

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This Week’s Pattern

Some stages of adulthood used to arrive with their own instructions. Middle age meant one thing. Retirement began at a recognizable moment. Older homeowners downsized. Parents helped their children, then passed something on.

Those transitions are less automatic now. The next chapter often depends on someone creating a place to go, a reason to leave, or a plan that makes the change possible.

The Forties Move Again

Anne Hathaway and Natalie Portman recently announced pregnancies at 43 and 45. A generation ago, their ages might have dominated the coverage. This time, the announcements drew congratulations and little surprise.

Why it matters: The forties no longer come with a shared understanding of what should already be finished. People may still be buying first homes, earning degrees, changing careers, or beginning families.

Real-world signal: The median first-time homebuyer reached age 40 in 2025. Births to women 40 and older increased 193% between 1990 and 2023. More than 600,000 people over 40 were enrolled in graduate school in 2021.

Yes, but: More freedom can create its own pressure. The promise that anything remains possible can make an ordinary, settled life feel insufficient.

Hidden insight: Middle age used to mark the point when building gave way to maintaining. Now the forties can contain both at once, leaving people with more choices and fewer cultural cues about which chapter they are in.

Takeaway: A longer timeline gives you more room, but not always more clarity.

Source: The Wall Street Journal

The Housing Handoff Stalls

Baby boomers own millions of family homes purchased decades ago and held through enormous gains in value. Younger buyers have spent years waiting for those houses to return to the market. Many older owners are still waiting for a better reason to leave.

Why it matters: Housing turnover depends on more than age. People need an appealing next place to live, along with the money, support, and confidence to make the move.

Real-world signal: Boomers hold nearly half of America’s real-estate wealth and own 28% of homes with three or more bedrooms. Yet 77% of older adults want to remain at home for the long term. Retirement-planning author Sara Zeff Geber says people struggle to imagine themselves “in their more frail bodies,” making it easy to postpone a move until the options narrow.

Yes, but: The houses that eventually reach the market may not suit the people waiting for them. Some need extensive repairs, sit far from jobs, or are located in retirement destinations with limited demand from younger households.

Hidden insight: Aging in place is often described as a personal preference. It is also what happens when the market offers plenty of homes for raising children and too few desirable options for what comes next.

Takeaway: People need somewhere worth going before they will leave somewhere they love.

Sources: Newsweek, MarketWatch

Maryland Builds Around Longer Lives

When Sathya Elumalai wanted to help his mother manage several chronic conditions, he developed a handheld device that measures health signals at home. He later built Aidar Health in Maryland, drawing on the state’s research institutions, health systems, technology companies, and investment programs.

Why it matters: Longer lives tend to appear in public policy as healthcare costs or demands on social services. Maryland is also looking at the workers, businesses, products, and communities taking shape around them.

Real-world signal: Adults over 50 are expected to make up more than one-third of Maryland’s workforce by 2030. Their spending will support an estimated 1.7 million jobs. Retirement communities are also being used as “living labs,” where residents test products and advise startups.

Yes, but: A larger market does not guarantee better products. New tools still have to be affordable, secure, accessible, and useful in the routines of daily life.

Hidden insight: Maryland is treating health, employment, technology, and community design as connected questions. That matters because people experience them together, even when government and industry handle them separately.

Takeaway: A longer life is easier to navigate when healthcare, work, technology, and community fit together.

Source: Maryland Department of Commerce

When Work Stops, What Starts?

Work provides more than a paycheck. It shapes our weeks, introduces us to new people, gives us problems to solve, and offers a reason to leave the house. As more Gen Xers approach retirement, replacing that structure may prove harder than replacing their income.

Why it matters: Retirement planning has become increasingly individual. Fewer workers can rely on a pension or a fixed retirement age, leaving each person to decide not only when to stop working, but what should come next.

Real-world signal: Only 14% of Gen X workers have a traditional pension, and just 26% work with a financial adviser. Meanwhile, building a social life takes longer than most people realize. Researchers estimate it takes about 50 shared hours to move from acquaintance to casual friend, 90 hours to become genuine friends, and more than 200 hours to develop a close friendship.

Yes, but: Work creates regular contact without necessarily creating close relationships. The friendships that last beyond a career usually grow through shared interests, meals, volunteering, recreation, and time spent together outside the office.

Hidden insight: For decades, retirement planning focused on replacing a paycheck. Longer lives make another replacement just as important: the routines, relationships, and sense of purpose that work quietly supplied.

Takeaway: Don’t wait for retirement to build the life you hope it will make possible.

Sources: Fortune, Forbes

The Backup Plan Becomes the Child

Brandon is raising two children and saving for retirement. Then he looked at his 65-year-old mother’s finances: $112,000 in her 401(k), plus a mortgage and car payments that Social Security would not cover. He began to wonder whether her backup plan was him.

Why it matters: Families are often told to expect a great transfer of wealth from older generations. Some households are already seeing money and responsibility move the other way.

Real-world signal: Only 40% of boomers ages 61 to 65 are on track to maintain their current lifestyles in retirement. Family caregivers spend roughly $7,000 out of pocket each year, drawing from budgets already supporting children, housing, and their own long-term savings.

Yes, but: The burden is not evenly shared. Families with more income and wealth can often help without abandoning their plans. Women and households with fewer resources are more likely to carry lasting financial damage.

Hidden insight: A missing plan eventually becomes someone else’s decision. In many families, that person is an adult child preparing for later life while quietly financing a parent’s.

Takeaway: Your parents’ financial future may already be part of your own.

Source: Business Insider

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

Rethink Aging With Us

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• If you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond and not ready to fade out.

• If you’re a builder, strategist, or decision-maker trying to understand what aging really means for your product, team, city, or community.

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This Week’s Pattern

A generation can be small without seeming scarce.

Its members still fill offices, schools, hospitals, city governments, and family group chats. They supervise teams, remember why old decisions were made, help children get started, and notice when a parent’s life begins slipping at the edges.

The imbalance appears slowly. One experienced person leaves. One sibling becomes the default caregiver. One institution keeps power in the same hands. One medical breakthrough proves harder to deliver than to discover.

This week’s stories point to the same pressure from four directions: more responsibility is gathering around a narrower group of people.

The Care Plan Nobody Made

A parent may still live alone while small signs begin appearing: an unopened bill, a missed meal, a shower quietly avoided because getting in and out has become difficult. Families often enter caregiving before anyone uses the word.

Why it matters: Earlier limitations lengthen the period when help is needed. They also pull spouses and adult children into care while those family members are still working, raising children, and managing households of their own.

Real-world signal: Among Americans ages 65 to 74, unmet care needs rose from 11.1% in 2011 to 13.5% in 2022. Growth in that age group pushed the estimated number affected from 2.2 million to 4.2 million. Researcher Sarah Patterson described “younger older adults who are starting off older adulthood sicker and with more unmet care needs.”

Yes, but: The study does not establish why the increase occurred. The pattern also varied by age: unmet needs rose only slightly among adults 75 to 84 and declined among those 85 and older.

Hidden insight: Fewer middle-aged adults can mean fewer siblings, neighbors, and adult children available to divide the work. That turns a family responsibility into a concentration problem.

Takeaway: Make the care plan before one reliable person quietly becomes the entire plan.

Source: San Francisco Chronicle

Where Did Everyone in the Middle Go?

A veteran teacher retires. A longtime manager leaves. The neighbor who always ran the local fundraiser moves south. None of these departures makes national news, but a community can feel different after enough of them accumulate.

Why it matters: Adults between 45 and 64 often sit at the intersection of professional judgment, caregiving, income, and civic responsibility. Their numbers are falling while the country continues to rely on what they know.

Real-world signal: The U.S. population ages 45 to 64 declined by 2.68 million between 2020 and 2025, from 84 million to 81.3 million. During the same period, the population 65 and older grew 16.2%.

Yes, but: Part of the decline reflects generational timing. Younger boomers are leaving the age group faster than Gen X can replace them, and migration is shifting some of the loss from one region to another.

Hidden insight: Population growth can hide a loss of know-how. A place may add residents while losing the people who train colleagues, lead institutions, provide informal care, and remember how things get done.

Takeaway: Know which people your workplace or community cannot easily replace.

Source: Axios

What Happens When Power Won’t Move?

Longer lives allow people to remain active, influential, and productive for more years. They can also keep wealth, authority, and seniority in the same hands longer. That tension is easy to flatten into a fight between generations.

Why it matters: When leadership, housing wealth, and political influence accumulate by age, younger and middle-aged adults can spend more of adulthood waiting — for promotions, homes, inheritances, or policies that reflect their priorities.

Real-world signal: Yale professor Samuel Moyn argues that America has become a gerontocracy shaped by unusually wealthy older citizens. Visa estimates that boomers hold more than half of American wealth — about $93 trillion. Redfin found that Americans 70 and older now own 26% of the country’s real estate, more than adults ages 40 to 54. Moyn writes that “the rich today are old, to an astonishing extent.”

Yes, but: Age is a crude stand-in for power. Millions of older Americans have little wealth or influence, and many continue working because they cannot afford to stop. Moyn’s most provocative proposals also pull attention away from the evidence beneath them.

Hidden insight: A longer working life needs movement inside it. Institutions have to preserve experience while still allowing authority, ownership, and opportunity to pass between generations.

Takeaway: Ask whether experience is being shared or simply held.

Source: Fortune

The Breakthrough That Can’t Reach Everyone

Two cell therapies have cleared a regulatory threshold that no treatment of their kind had crossed before. Getting them approved was one problem. Producing them reliably for more than a limited number of patients is another. Regenerative medicine is entering the difficult stretch between scientific success and ordinary care.

Why it matters: Medical progress is usually described as a discovery problem. Living-cell treatments add another challenge: each therapy must be produced consistently despite biological differences among donors and patients.

Real-world signal: Japan granted conditional, time-limited approval to two therapies derived from induced pluripotent stem cells in March — one for severe heart failure and another for Parkinson’s disease. Separate research cited by the World Economic Forum found that cells from genetically diverse donors could be turned into high-quality neural tissue, with production conditions predicted from limited data.

Yes, but: Conditional approval is only an early step. The therapies still need confirmatory studies, and health systems must prove they can manufacture them consistently, affordably, and at a scale that reaches more than a small number of patients.

Hidden insight: A treatment becomes widely useful only after health systems can produce it consistently, pay for it, and deliver it beyond a small group of patients. Discovery may create the possibility. Infrastructure determines who benefits.

Takeaway: Judge a medical advance by the distance between approval and access.

Source: World Economic Forum

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

Rethink Aging With Us

This is for you and you’re in the right place:

• If you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond and not ready to fade out.

• If you’re a builder, strategist, or decision-maker trying to understand what aging really means for your product, team, city, or community.

• If you’re tired of “decline narratives” about age and are ready for something more honest, more useful, and more human.

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This Week’s Pattern

Some years hold more weight than others.

A daughter checks on aging parents nearly 1,000 miles away and finds bills unpaid, Meals on Wheels deliveries uneaten, and mice in a once-meticulous home. A worker loses a job near 60 and discovers experience can make the search harder. A woman in her 70s picks up heavier weights because balance and confidence have to be built. A beauty store turns down the volume so customers can browse without bracing.

This week’s stories are about the load-bearing years.

The extra years do not wait politely for retirement. They reach backward into midlife and sideways into work, marriage, debt, fitness, retail, and family care.

The Meeting Started Anyway

Sarah Davies was preparing to present at a board meeting when she learned her elderly father had fallen at home. She cried in the office stairwell, washed her face, and went in to pitch. The workday kept moving. So did the family emergency.

Why it matters: The 40s and 50s are becoming a collision point for career responsibility, parenting, elder care, and financial strain. Many adults are expected to perform at full speed while quietly coordinating the fragile parts of everyone else’s life.

Real-world signal: Fast Company reports that mid-career workers are facing rising professional demands at the same time caregiving needs intensify. The Wall Street Journal shows the family side: adult children traveling long distances as parents refuse help, bills go unpaid, Meals on Wheels deliveries sit uneaten, and once-orderly homes become unsafe.

Yes, but: Better coping habits can help at the edges. They do not fix a work culture that assumes caregiving happens somewhere else.

Hidden insight: The care system hides inside middle-aged people’s calendars. When formal support is missing, the meeting invite, the lunch break, the weekend flight, and the late-night phone call become the infrastructure.

Takeaway: Your calendar may be the first place you notice whether your life is built to hold the people who need you.

Source: Fast Company, The Wall Street Journal

Too Experienced to Get Hired

A longer career sounds empowering until the job disappears in your late 50s. Experience still matters. So do judgment, relationships, pattern recognition, and stamina. Yet the labor market can treat later-career workers as expensive, temporary, or already halfway out.

Why it matters: People are being asked to work longer in an economy that can still struggle to rehire them. That creates a gap between financial reality and workplace behavior.

Real-world signal: Fortune reports that among Americans ages 50 to 65, 14% were laid off once in the past decade, 4% were laid off more than once, and 24% of those laid off could not find a new job. MarketWatch offers the counter-signal: a founder at 50 is twice as likely to succeed as one at 30, with older entrepreneurs using contacts, judgment, and lived experience as business assets.

Yes, but: Starting a business takes money, time, health, confidence, and a safety net. Those are not evenly distributed.

Hidden insight: The labor market has plenty of language for potential. It has far less imagination for accumulated skill that needs a new door.

Takeaway: A later-career plan may need more than another resume; it may need another route back into usefulness.

Source: Fortune, MarketWatch

The New Tool for Independence

More people are trying to stay ahead of the medical system. They track, research, lift, supplement, walk, compare, and decide. The doctor still matters, but the work of staying well is spreading into ordinary routines.

Why it matters: Healthspan is becoming something people practice in daily life. That changes what they expect from gyms, food, technology, insurance, housing, retail, and care.

Real-world signal: Ipsos reports that 49% of Thai consumers expect to live to 100, 84% want more control over health decisions, and 82% actively research health information themselves. Women’s Health gives the physical version: postmenopausal women with low bone density who did supervised high-intensity resistance and impact training twice a week for eight months increased lower-spine bone density by 2.9% on average, while the control group lost 1.2%.

Yes, but: More control can become more burden. More data, choices, and responsibility do not automatically make people healthier.

Hidden insight: Independence is increasingly something people train for. A barbell class, a walkable neighborhood, a meal plan, or a sleep routine can become part of the support system long before anyone calls it care.

Takeaway: The most powerful health design may be the routine you can repeat without turning your life into a project.

Source: Ipsos, Women’s Health

The Plan That Expired

A marriage, a mortgage, a retirement account, an estate plan, a debt payoff schedule. Much of adult life is organized around assumptions made years earlier. Then life keeps going, and the paperwork starts to look outdated.

Why it matters: Household stability has always been central to later-life planning. When marriages end, debt lingers, or family structures shift late in life, the financial math changes for spouses, adult children, and heirs.

Real-world signal: Business Insider reports that divorce among people over 50 has doubled since 1990, divorce among people over 65 has tripled, and nearly 40% of divorces now involve adults over 50. The Independent adds another wrinkle: around 3 million older Americans have student-loan debt, and the average baby boomer borrower owes $42,780 in federal student loans.

Yes, but: A revised household is not automatically a broken one. Leaving a marriage, changing an estate plan, or carrying debt later in life can reflect independence, survival, or choices that became possible only because life kept opening up.

Hidden insight: The paper trail of adult life was built to settle things. Longer lives keep reopening the file.

Takeaway: A life plan that worked at 45 may need fresh eyes at 65.

Source: Business Insider, The Independent

The Store Turned Down the Volume

A quiet hour at Sephora sounds small until you think about what retail usually asks of people. Bright lights. Loud music. Crowds. Kids filming themselves. A store built for energy can become a store that pushes adult shoppers out.

Why it matters: Inclusive design often starts with one group and ends up helping many more. Sephora’s Quiet Hours were developed with neurodivergent and sensory-sensitive shoppers in mind, but the idea also lands with Gen X customers who want space to browse without being overwhelmed.

Real-world signal: BeautyMatter reports that Gen X accounts for roughly 25% of global beauty spend, and cites Circana data showing Gen X households accounted for 44% of total beauty dollars spent in the past year. As Tuan Tu told BeautyMatter, Gen X shoppers “crave the ability to browse and discover without distraction.”

Yes, but: Quiet Hours are still limited. A few designated windows do not fix a retail model that often treats overstimulation as atmosphere.

Hidden insight: Consumers have a sensory budget. Brands usually talk about price, convenience, and selection; this story is a reminder that attention and energy are part of the transaction too.

Takeaway: The best customer experience may be the one that stops making people brace themselves.

Source: BeautyMatter

Who Gets to Carry It Well

Living longer is one of the great human achievements. But averages can flatten the story. More years can mean more freedom, more reinvention, and more time with family. They can also mean more fragile years, more debt, more unpaid care, and more exposure to systems that were already hard to navigate.

Why it matters: Longevity is often discussed as a shared gain. In practice, the benefits depend heavily on income, education, work history, housing, health access, and family support.

Real-world signal: An Il Sole 24 Ore report on a Venice conference examined inequalities in longevity, bringing together economists, demographers, doctors, and policy experts to look at how education, income, employment, environment, prevention, and access to treatment shape not just how long people live, but how well they live.

Yes, but: The inequality does not erase the progress. It does make the progress less complete than the averages suggest.

Hidden insight: The load-bearing years are easier to carry when you have spare capacity. Money helps. So do flexible work, nearby family, health literacy, safe housing, time, and a system that does not require heroic navigation.

Takeaway: Planning for a longer life matters, but so does asking who gets the conditions to live one well.

Source: Il Sole 24 Ore

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— Bryan Kelly

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This Week’s Pattern

Modern society has become remarkably good at extending the lifespan of things. Buildings last longer. Cars last longer. Products last longer.

People do too.

Careers are stretching. Homes are being designed differently. Prevention is moving beyond hospitals. Companies are paying closer attention to customers they once overlooked.

None of those stories is really about aging.

Together, they reveal adulthood now stretches across more years than many of our institutions, products, and assumptions were built to support.

Careers Are Stretching

Few people now expect their working lives to unfold in one uninterrupted stretch from first job to retirement. Career breaks for caregiving, education, health, or simply reassessing priorities have become part of modern adulthood. At the same time, workers are adapting to technologies like AI that demand new skills long after many assumed the learning phase of their careers was behind them.

Why it matters: Employment systems were largely designed around a predictable sequence: education first, work second, retirement last. Longer careers are making that sequence less common. Careers increasingly unfold in chapters, each bringing new skills, responsibilities, and periods of reinvention.

Real-world signal: Workers over age 55 grew from 10% of the U.S. workforce in 1994 to 25% in 2022. Meanwhile, 45% of Americans under 65 say they lack confidence they’ll have enough to retire. Or they don’t expect to retire at all.

• Retirement researchers told The Wall Street Journal that workers increasingly want “breaks for education and rest and caring for family members, as opposed to some sort of continuous, linear career path.”

• A labor economist interviewed by Business Insider described AI as “the first time I have seen a technological innovation benefit older workers more than younger workers in terms of job security.”

Yes, but: Many workers still lack access to workplace retirement plans, and large parts of the economy continue to reward uninterrupted, full-time careers.

Hidden insight: AI may be less disruptive than the longer careers it’s arriving into. Someone who spends forty or fifty years in the workforce should expect multiple waves of technological change. Adaptability becomes part of career longevity, while experience provides the judgment new tools can’t replicate.

Takeaway: The question is becoming less about when your career ends and more about how many chapters it might include.

Source: The Wall Street Journal, Business Insider

Prevention Becomes the Default

For most of the last century, healthcare has focused on treating illness after it appears. That approach helped people live longer. The next challenge is helping them stay healthier for more of those years.

Why it matters: Longer lives are shifting attention upstream. Health is becoming something shaped by workplaces, schools, neighborhoods, nutrition, technology, and public policy—not just doctors’ offices and hospitals.

Real-world signal: The World Economic Forum estimates that every $1 invested in prevention generates about $14 in societal value. Its latest report argues that “Prevention must start upstream, by redesigning the default,” reflecting a growing recognition that healthier lives depend as much on everyday environments as medical treatment.

Yes, but: Prevention is difficult to measure because success often looks like nothing happened. It also requires sustained investment long before the benefits become visible.

Hidden insight: Healthcare is quietly becoming everyone’s job. Employers, food companies, technology firms, urban planners, and policymakers all influence the conditions that shape health long before someone becomes a patient. Longer lives are expanding the boundaries of what we think of as healthcare.

Takeaway: The future of health may depend less on better treatments than on creating better defaults long before treatment is needed.

Source: World Economic Forum

Good Design Gets Out of the Way

The best products rarely draw attention to themselves. A curb cut helps someone using a wheelchair, but also a parent pushing a stroller. Lever-style door handles work just as well when your hands are full as when arthritis makes turning a knob difficult. Good design often serves many people without announcing who it was designed for.

Why it matters: Longer lives are changing the way designers think about homes and everyday products. The goal is no longer creating special solutions for older adults. It’s creating environments that remain comfortable, intuitive, and useful as people’s needs change over time.

Real-world signal: In Italy, where life expectancy now exceeds 84 years and nearly one in four people is over age 65, this year’s Salone del Mobile highlighted how longevity is reshaping design.

• Organizers described it as “a cultural condition that is bound to redefine our living spaces,” calling for products that “support without being conspicuous, that assist without medicalizing.”

Yes, but: Thoughtful design alone can’t overcome financial barriers, inaccessible housing, or inadequate care. The biggest challenge may be making these ideas affordable enough to become ordinary rather than exceptional.

Hidden insight: Universal design is quietly becoming mainstream design. Products created to accommodate changing abilities often feel better for everyone. The most successful longevity design doesn’t advertise itself—it simply removes friction from everyday life while preserving independence and dignity.

Takeaway: When a product feels easier to use without making you feel older, that’s often good design doing exactly what it should.

Source: Salone del Mobile

Companies Are Catching Up

Walk through almost any grocery store or browse the latest product launches and you might assume younger consumers dominate the market. Yet many of today’s highest-spending households are led by people well into midlife. The demographics shifted years ago. Marketing is only beginning to catch up.

Why it matters: Consumer markets often recognize social change before public policy does. As people remain active and financially influential for longer, companies are redesigning products and marketing for customers whose lives no longer fit yesterday’s timeline.

Real-world signal: Gen X represents about 17% of the global population but spent an estimated $15.2 trillion globally in 2025, with spending projected to reach roughly $23 trillion by 2035.

• Researchers quoted by the Food Institute note that “Visibility is not the same thing as household penetration, and conversation is not the same thing as conversion.”

Yes, but: Youth culture will always influence trends, and brands still need to build relationships with younger generations. The opportunity isn’t replacing one audience with another. It’s acknowledging that today’s mainstream customer looks different than many marketers still assume.

Hidden insight: Businesses don’t adapt because customers reach a certain age. They adapt because customers remain engaged, capable, and economically important for much longer than previous generations did. Companies follow behavior long before culture catches up.

Takeaway: Watch where companies invest. They often reveal social change before public conversations do.

Source: Food Institute

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

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The Stage After Work No One Named

Millions of people are entering a stage of life that previous generations rarely experienced. They have finished raising children. They may be winding down one career or starting another. They are healthy enough to work, travel, volunteer, learn, and contribute. Yet many of the systems around them still assume they are either fully employed or moving toward dependency.

Why it matters: The traditional retirement model assumed a fairly predictable sequence. Education. Work. Retirement. Old age. Longer lives are stretching the years between those stages. Many people now have 20 or 30 active years ahead of them after their primary career ends, but few institutions were designed with that reality in mind.

Real-world signal: In Thailand, nearly six in ten adults over 60 are in their sixties, representing roughly 8 million people in what researchers call the “young old.” Across Asia and the Pacific, the population over 60 is projected to more than double between 2020 and 2050.

• As Charkhris Phomyoth, CEO of YoungHappy, wrote: “When we started, we assumed older adults needed help, but what they actually wanted was to be useful.”

Yes, but: Purpose is not distributed evenly. Health, income, caregiving responsibilities, transportation, and access to technology all influence what people can do with those additional years.

Hidden insight: The missing middle is often described as a retirement challenge. It also reflects the emergence of a new life stage. Millions of people now spend years or decades between full-time work and dependency, yet few institutions were designed with that chapter in mind.

Takeaway: Longer lives create a new chapter between career and dependency. Most of us have not started planning for it yet.

Source: World Economic Forum

Care Still Runs Through People

Most people do not spend much time thinking about caregiving until someone close to them needs help. A parent falls. A spouse gets sick. A neighbor starts struggling to live independently. In those moments, professional services often become part of the picture. Family members usually do too.

Why it matters: Aging systems often assume a spouse, adult child, relative, or trusted friend will help coordinate care. Professional services remain essential, but many older adults rely on informal support networks to navigate appointments, emergencies, finances, transportation, and daily life.

Real-world signal: More than 80% of Americans over 65 who need care depend on family members, and roughly two-thirds rely entirely on informal care. The Atlantic described this reality as the “kin delusion.” A separate story from The Times followed a young London renter who exchanged reduced rent for helping an 87-year-old homeowner. What began as occasional gardening and household chores gradually expanded into something much more demanding.

Yes, but: Informal support arrangements can create strain when responsibilities are unclear. Good intentions do not automatically create sustainable care relationships.

Hidden insight: The story from London was framed as a housing arrangement. It gradually became a care arrangement. As more people age in place and housing costs remain high, the line between housing, companionship, and caregiving is becoming harder to separate.

Takeaway: Planning for later life means thinking about relationships and support networks, not just healthcare and finances.

Source: The Atlantic, The Times

The Backup Plan That Often Fails

Retirement rarely arrives exactly as planned. Some people leave work earlier than expected because of health issues. Others step away to care for family members or because a job disappears. Yet many retirement plans still assume future income from work long after a primary career ends.

Why it matters: Retirement planning increasingly assumes future income from work. For many households, continued employment functions as a backup plan for rising costs, longer lives, and uncertainty about savings. The challenge is that access to work becomes harder for many people at the exact moment they expect to rely on it.

Real-world signal: According to the Employee Benefit Research Institute, 75% of workers expect to earn income after retirement. Only 31% of retirees actually do.

• As EBRI’s Craig Copeland told USA Today: “People do expect to gradually transition by reducing hours, but what ends up happening is, they end up stopping completely.”

Yes, but: Some retirees successfully transition into consulting, part-time work, or second careers. Others leave the workforce earlier than expected because of health issues, caregiving responsibilities, layoffs, or difficulty finding new opportunities.

Hidden insight: Many retirement plans quietly assume future employability. Unlike a retirement account or pension, work is an asset that depends on health, labor markets, and employer demand. Access can disappear when it is needed most.

Takeaway: Work can strengthen a retirement plan. It becomes more valuable when it remains an option rather than a necessity.

Source: USA Today

The Knowledge Is Walking Out

Every workplace has people who seem to know how everything works. They remember why decisions were made, which customer relationships matter, and where previous efforts went off track. Many of those workers are approaching retirement, taking decades of accumulated experience with them.

Why it matters: Experience accumulates slowly. It includes customer relationships, institutional memory, judgment, and context that rarely appears in manuals or databases. As large numbers of experienced employees retire, organizations risk losing knowledge that took decades to build.

Real-world signal: More than 30 million Americans will turn 65 over the next four years. A report from eGain and Deloitte estimates that the retirement-driven knowledge gap could represent between $6.9 trillion and $9.6 trillion in lost output. The report also found that 92% of organizations do not consistently capture knowledge from employees approaching retirement.

Yes, but: New technologies make it easier to document expertise and preserve institutional knowledge. The challenge is organizational behavior. Many companies wait too long to begin the process.

Hidden insight: Organizations often focus on succession planning for leadership roles. The bigger vulnerability may be the everyday knowledge accumulated across thousands of experienced employees. Most companies know more than they have written down.

Takeaway: Experience compounds over time. Preserving it may become one of the most important workforce challenges of the next decade.

Source: Quiver Quantitative

Longer Lives Are Becoming Infrastructure

Most societies spent decades preparing people for retirement. Far fewer prepared for what comes after it. Longer lives are creating new demands on healthcare, housing, financial systems, and communities. Governments and businesses are increasingly treating those challenges as something that requires active planning rather than passive adaptation.

Why it matters: Governments, investors, and businesses are increasingly treating longevity as a planning challenge that affects housing, financial systems, healthcare, workforce participation, and economic growth. Longer lives are becoming a design problem as much as a demographic one.

Real-world signal: Canada becomes a super-aged society this year, with more than 20% of its population over 65. Manulife, UpLink, and the World Economic Forum recently launched a longevity innovation challenge focused on healthy aging, financial resilience, and social connection. Dubai has established a Longevity Authority to oversee research, regulation, investment, and advanced health initiatives. Meanwhile, adults over 60 account for roughly 27% of global consumer spending despite representing only about 15% of the world’s population.

Yes, but: Not everyone benefits equally from longevity innovation. Access, affordability, and awareness remain significant barriers, particularly for those facing financial insecurity or social isolation.

Hidden insight: The longevity economy is often discussed in terms of products and services. Canada and Dubai are investing in something broader. Both are building institutions designed around longer lives, much as previous generations built institutions around mass education, homeownership, and retirement.

Takeaway: Longer lives are becoming a planning challenge for institutions, not just individuals.

Source: Deutsche Bank, Longevity.Technology - Canada, Longevity.Technology - Dubai

Retirement Has Gone Digital

Retirement used to be associated with slowing down. Increasingly, many older adults are using the extra time to learn new skills, explore new technologies, and participate in online communities. For some, artificial intelligence has become the latest tool for staying engaged with a rapidly changing world.

Why it matters: Technology adoption among older adults continues to rise. Smartphones, AI tools, online learning, and digital communities are creating new ways for people to stay engaged, productive, and connected after leaving full-time work.

Real-world signal: Smartphone ownership among adults over 50 increased from 55% in 2016 to 90% in 2025. AI adoption among older adults nearly doubled between 2024 and 2025. Business Insider profiled retirees using AI to build apps, create content, explore new interests, and solve everyday problems.

• As retiree Mark Bayer put it: “Ignoring AI ... is a way to say I’m done learning anything new, which is self-limiting.”

Yes, but: Many retirees also expressed concerns about misinformation, excessive screen time, and losing face-to-face interaction. New technology creates opportunities alongside new tradeoffs.

Hidden insight: The retirees experimenting with AI are not necessarily trying to stay young. Many are trying to stay capable, curious, and connected in a rapidly changing world. The technology is new. The motivation is familiar.

Takeaway: The desire to learn may prove just as important to healthy aging as the desire to slow down.

Source: Business Insider

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

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The Generation Rewriting the Rules

Gen X has become the family problem-solver. Many are helping adult children stay afloat while supporting aging parents and trying to secure their own retirement. What previous generations often experienced one stage at a time is increasingly happening all at once.

Why it matters: The traditional retirement timeline assumed a fairly predictable sequence. Children would become independent. Mortgages would shrink. Retirement savings would accelerate. Many Gen X households are discovering that reality looks different. Adult children are staying connected longer. Parents are living longer. Housing costs remain high.

Real-world signal: 19% of Gen X homebuyers purchased multigenerational homes in 2024, the highest share of any generation. Adult children moving home and caring for aging parents were the two most common reasons. At the same time, many Gen X households expect to carry mortgage debt into retirement while questioning how much they can rely on Social Security and other traditional supports.

• Economist Shane Oliver told AMP’s State of Gen X Australia report that these are “peak expense years” when mortgages, dependent children, and caregiving responsibilities collide.

Yes, but: Many Gen X workers are adapting. The Financial Times highlighted growing numbers of women building wealth through consulting, entrepreneurship, self-employment, and other forms of independent work that fall outside traditional career paths.

Hidden insight: Gen X is often described as the sandwich generation. A larger shift is underway. They are entering retirement as many of the assumptions that shaped retirement for previous generations become less certain. Their experience may be an early preview of how longer lives reshape adulthood itself.

Takeaway: The families adapting best are building plans that work across generations.

Source: Florida Realtors, The Adviser, NBC News, Financial Times, Hype Hair

The Complexity Economy Has Arrived

Retirement planning now includes decisions previous generations rarely had to connect. Housing, caregiving, health, work, transportation, and family support increasingly show up in the same conversation. A decision in one area often creates consequences in another. The result is a longer life that can feel harder to navigate, even when people are healthier and living well.

Why it matters: Many of the systems people rely on were built around a simpler life path. Retirement planning focused on savings. Housing focused on location. Healthcare focused on treatment. Today, those decisions overlap. Helping a parent can affect retirement timing. Housing can affect caregiving. Health can affect work.

Real-world signal: A new Longevity Preparedness Index developed by John Hancock and the MIT AgeLab found that Americans scored just 60 out of 100 on overall preparedness for longer lives. Care planning, housing, and health were among the lowest-scoring areas.

• Joseph Coughlin, founder and director of the MIT AgeLab, wrote in Forbes, “Longevity doesn’t simply add years. It compounds complexity.”

Yes, but: More options do not automatically make life easier. People with strong social networks, financial resources, and trusted guidance often have an easier time navigating major transitions than those making decisions alone.

Hidden insight: A housing decision can affect caregiving. Caregiving can affect work. Work can affect retirement timing. New planning tools, advisors, and services are emerging to help people connect decisions that were once treated separately.

Takeaway: Longer lives create more opportunities to shape how the next chapter unfolds.

Source: Forbes, WorldHealth.net

The House Is Learning to Adapt

For decades, later-life housing choices followed a familiar script. Join a community designed around connection. Today, people are writing new versions of that story. Some are renovating homes to support aging in place. Others are choosing multigenerational living, cohousing communities, retirement destinations built around social connection, or entirely new housing models.

Why it matters: Housing decisions shape much more than where people sleep. They influence friendships, caregiving, transportation, daily routines, health, and independence. As retirement stretches across more years, flexibility becomes increasingly valuable.

Real-world signal: Roughly 75% of Americans over 50 want to remain in their current homes, yet only about 10% of homes are considered aging-ready. At the same time, communities highlighted by Architectural Digest include multigenerational households, LGBTQ-focused cohousing developments, and highly social retirement communities such as The Villages.

• Garrett Hughes, who is renovating his suburban New York home to support aging in place, told The Wall Street Journal, “Nothing is 100% certain and never is.”

Yes, but: Staying put can require significant investment. Home modifications, transportation, maintenance, and future care needs all require planning long before a crisis occurs.

Hidden insight: People once viewed housing primarily as a financial asset. Increasingly, they are evaluating homes based on how well they support everyday life. Across the country, families are redesigning homes, creating accessory dwelling units, and experimenting with new forms of community living.

Takeaway: The best housing choice may be the one that gives you the most options five, ten, or twenty years from now.

Source: Wall Street Journal, Architectural Digest

Work Was Designed for Careers, Not Lives

The modern workplace was built around a simple assumption: employees would manage most of life’s complications somewhere else. That assumption is becoming harder to sustain. Workers are spending more years caring for children, supporting aging parents, managing chronic health conditions, and planning for longer retirements while remaining employed.

Why it matters: Many workplace benefits were designed around broad categories such as healthcare, retirement, and parental leave. Real life rarely fits into neat categories. Family responsibilities, health concerns, caregiving obligations, and financial pressures often arrive at the same time.

Real-world signal: Employers are increasingly adding support for caregiving, menopause, chronic disease management, mental health, and later-life planning. These programs reflect a workforce whose needs change significantly across a 40- or 50-year career.

The underlying idea is straightforward. A worker in their twenties and a worker in their fifties may need very different forms of support, even if they hold the same role.

Yes, but: Expanding benefits can be expensive, particularly for smaller employers. Access to these programs remains uneven across industries and income levels.

Hidden insight: Conversations about work-life balance once focused heavily on childcare. Today’s workforce is navigating a broader set of responsibilities that includes caregiving, health management, longer careers, and retirement planning. Many workers are responding through consulting, entrepreneurship, project-based work, and more flexible career paths.

Takeaway: Longer careers require new ways to support people through changing lives.

Source: Mercer

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

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• If you’re tired of “decline narratives” about age and are ready for something more honest, more useful, and more human.

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The Inheritance Is Arriving Early

Rachel Rigolino helps pay for her grandson’s preschool. Another retired couple estimates they’ve given roughly $700,000 to children and grandchildren over the years. They’re part of a growing shift among older Americans: giving money now instead of leaving it later.

Why it matters: The traditional inheritance model assumed wealth would arrive after life’s biggest expenses had passed. That timing no longer fits reality. Housing costs are rising, childcare is expensive, and many younger families are under financial strain long before an inheritance would typically arrive. Some parents and grandparents are deciding their money can do more good today than decades from now.

Real-world signal: Rigolino, a 61-year-old college lecturer, helps cover preschool costs and has set aside money for her grandson’s future education. Other families described helping with down payments, rent, private school tuition, and multigenerational travel.

• Rachel Rigolino told The Wall Street Journal, “The daily grind puts a lot of pressure on people. If you can alleviate a little of it, I think that’s great.”

Yes, but: Parents who give money away today still have to account for future healthcare expenses, long-term care, and the possibility of living into their 90s.

Hidden insight: A down payment. A year of childcare. Help with graduate school. These gifts are often arriving when families are making some of life’s biggest financial decisions. For many recipients, the timing may matter as much as the amount.

Takeaway: The question isn’t just what you’ll leave behind. It’s when your help matters most.

Source: Wall Street Journal

Midlife Wasn’t Supposed to Work Like This

When Ed Myrick’s son was born, he was 50 years old. Retirement savings moved down the priority list. College savings moved to the front of the line. Around the same time, he was managing health issues, recovering from surgeries, and thinking about how long he might need to keep working. His story is becoming less unusual.

Why it matters: The traditional life script left space between major responsibilities. People finished raising children before retirement planning became urgent. They helped aging parents before thinking about their own long-term care. Today, those timelines increasingly overlap.

Real-world signal: Women age 40 and older accounted for 4.3% of U.S. births in 2025, up from 1.2% in 1990. The Wall Street Journal profiled families navigating IVF expenses, college savings, career decisions, and retirement planning simultaneously. One parent calculated that she wouldn’t become an empty nester until her mid-60s.

• David Lamp, a financial adviser at Brighton Jones, told The Wall Street Journal, “When everything starts later in life, you have less time to adjust.”

Yes, but: Later parenthood comes with advantages. Older parents often have more stable relationships, stronger finances, and a clearer sense of what they want from family life.

Hidden insight: A 50-year-old can find themselves saving for college, helping aging parents, paying down a mortgage, and trying to catch up on retirement contributions at the same time. Responsibilities that once unfolded across decades are increasingly arriving together.

Takeaway: More years don’t automatically create more space between life’s major responsibilities.

Source: Wall Street Journal

The Retirement System That Outlived Its Assumptions

One retiree told Fortune that the possibility of paying $10,000 a month for assisted living is always in the back of his mind. He’s hardly alone. Many baby boomers are reaching retirement age with more uncertainty than previous generations expected. Some are still working. Others are holding onto homes longer. Many are trying to figure out how much money they’ll actually need if they live into their 90s.

Why it matters: Retirement planning was built around assumptions that no longer match reality. People are living longer, healthcare costs are rising, and traditional pensions have largely disappeared.

Real-world signal: Roughly 30 million peak boomers will turn 65 between 2024 and 2030. Research cited by Fortune found that more than half have $250,000 or less in retirement savings. Many expect Social Security to cover a significant portion of their future income.

• One retiree told Fortune, “No Baby Boomer wants to be in that situation but it is always in the back of our minds.”

Yes, but: Retirement experiences vary widely. Some older adults have benefited from rising home values and decades of investment growth. Others are entering retirement with debt, limited savings, or caregiving responsibilities that make work difficult to leave behind.

Hidden insight: Assisted living costs, healthcare expenses, and the possibility of spending three decades in retirement make financial decisions harder to reverse. Many older adults are keeping more options open for longer.

Takeaway: A retirement that lasts 30 years creates different questions than one that lasts 10.

Source: Fortune

The House Is Learning to Help

When Saul Morse’s wife suffered a stroke, his phone wasn’t nearby. Using voice control, the 78-year-old wheelchair user called his adult children through a smart speaker. They called 911. That wasn’t why he originally installed the technology.

Why it matters: Most people want to remain in their homes as they age. A recent AARP survey found that 75% of adults hope to stay where they are for as long as possible. That goal depends on more than grab bars and wider doorways.

Real-world signal: Researchers and clinicians point to a growing range of products designed to support independent living. The list includes fall-detection devices, voice assistants, remote monitoring systems, medication reminders, and sensors that can alert family members to changes in activity patterns.

• Wendy Rogers, director of the Human Factors and Aging Laboratory at the University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign, told The Washington Post that technology can support “managing your home, taking care of your medications, cooking nutritious meals and taking care of your finances.”

Yes, but: Technology has limits. A smart speaker can’t help someone get out of bed. A fall detector can’t replace a caregiver. Many of the most important daily tasks still require another person.

Hidden insight: Voice assistants, sensors, medication reminders, and remote monitoring tools are becoming part of everyday living. Tasks once handled by nearby relatives are gradually being built into the home itself.

Takeaway: The homes that support aging best may be the ones quietly helping every day.

Source: Washington Post

AI’s Surprise Power Users

Gen X is supposed to be the generation caught between worlds. New data suggests it’s becoming one of AI’s fastest adopters too. That result is easy to overlook. It may also explain who gets the most practical value from these tools.

Why it matters: People in their late 40s and 50s often sit at the center of multiple responsibilities. They’re managing careers, helping aging parents, supporting children, making healthcare decisions, and thinking about retirement. Every one of those responsibilities creates paperwork, planning, research, and communication.

Real-world signal: A Gracenote study found that 69% of Gen X chatbot users increased their usage over the past 12 to 18 months. That exceeded both millennials and Gen Z, which each came in at 65%. Only Gen Alpha showed faster growth.

EMARKETER argued that companies designing AI experiences should reconsider the assumption that chatbot adoption is primarily a youth trend.

Yes, but: Increased usage doesn’t answer bigger questions about trust. People still worry about accuracy, privacy, and whether AI-generated answers are reliable enough for important decisions.

Hidden insight: Many popular AI uses are surprisingly ordinary: comparing options, summarizing documents, drafting messages, and organizing information. For busy adults, saving a few minutes repeatedly can add up quickly.

Takeaway: The busiest adults may be finding the most practical uses for AI.

Source: EMARKETER

The Industry That Mistook Loyalty for Renewal

For years, the ski industry worried about what would happen when baby boomers stopped skiing. The surprise wasn’t that the generation aged. It was how long they kept going. Healthier aging, better equipment, joint replacements, and longer active lives allowed many boomers to stay on the slopes well beyond what industry leaders expected.

Why it matters: Many organizations have benefited from the same dynamic. Older workers stay employed longer. Older customers remain active longer. Older volunteers continue showing up. Those trends can make demographic challenges feel less urgent than they really are.

Real-world signal: The median age of American skiers rose from 30 to 38 over the past 13 years. During the same period, baby boomers’ share of ski visits fell from 36.2% to 21.3%. Industry researcher Laurent Vanat noted that ski leaders have spent more than two decades discussing how to attract younger participants.

• Vanat told SnowBrains, “They have been trying to address this for at least 20 years, but they did not find the perfect solution.”

Yes, but: Younger people haven’t lost interest in outdoor recreation. The bigger obstacle may be cost. Lift tickets, equipment, travel, and lodging have pushed skiing beyond the reach of many families.

Hidden insight: Participation can stay strong long after succession starts weakening. A loyal customer base often masks demographic change until a generation begins to step away.

Takeaway: Every organization eventually has to answer the same question: who’s next?

Source: SnowBrains

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

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Welcome to this week’s age/proof Digest. My name is Bryan Kelly.

If you’re new here, I’m the writer behind age/proof design and my widowed father was diagnosed several months ago with stage 4 colon cancer. There’s been ups and downs… and the past few weeks in particular have required a lot of my attention.

In addition to this, I interestingly have a front-row seat to the biggest demographic shift in history.

At age 45 I moved to The Villages, Florida. It’s a community of 165,000+ older adults and I unexpectedly discovered this place is one of the most misunderstood experiments in modern aging.

Living here has made clear that my understanding of age was built on outdated assumptions that no longer reflect how people are living, working, and aging today.

My hope is that the insights and stories I share each week can help you rethink aging and explore how to design a life that actually works in a longer, messier, more open future. What experts are calling the 100-year life.

Thanks for being here!

This is the only weekly digest for forward-thinking people curious about the cultural and demographic shift reshaping the future of aging.

Written by a 40-something living inside the world’s largest retirement community. Here’s my round up of actionable insights this week to help us rethink what older age can be.

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The Aging System That Was Never Built

Millions of Americans are entering older age without a spouse, partner, or children nearby. Their experiences expose assumptions embedded throughout housing, healthcare, and long-term care.

Why it matters: Roughly 12.5 million Americans over 50 are solo agers who live alone and have neither a spouse nor a child. Many critical decisions involve paperwork, transportation, advocacy, financial oversight, and medical coordination. Existing structures often assume a family member will help manage those responsibilities.

Real-world signal: Amy Kant, a 65-year-old solo ager profiled by The Wall Street Journal, delayed decisions about powers of attorney and estate planning for years. After back surgery and heart valve replacement, she faced a question many solo agers eventually encounter: who steps in when no family member is available?

• Sara Zeff Geber, author of Essential Retirement Planning for Solo Agers, argues that many aging services still assume the presence of a spouse or adult child.

Yes, but: Solo aging extends well beyond people who never married or had children. Divorce, geographic mobility, family estrangement, and longer lifespans are creating similar circumstances for a growing number of households.

Hidden insight: Family members often provide transportation, coordination, advocacy, caregiving, and decision-making support. Those responsibilities were rarely built into formal institutions. Solo agers reveal where those gaps exist and where demand for new services, housing models, and care coordination is emerging.

Takeaway: Solo agers may be revealing the next major market for aging-related innovation.

Source: Wall Street Journal

The Third-Largest Economy Nobody Sees

For years, conversations about aging have focused on costs. New data points to a different reality.

Why it matters: Adults 50 and older generated $12.5 trillion in economic activity in 2024. If they formed their own nation, their economy would rank behind only the United States and China. Yet many companies still devote far more attention to younger consumers. The gap between demographic reality and business strategy continues to widen.

Real-world signal: AARP found that adults 50+ support 98 million jobs and contribute an estimated $1.2 trillion annually through unpaid caregiving and volunteer work. Companies including BMW, Estée Lauder, and J.Crew have responded by adapting products and experiences for longer lives.

• Debra Whitman, AARP’s chief public policy officer, said, “People aren’t just living longer. They’re working longer.”

Yes, but: Aggregate numbers can hide important differences. Many older adults remain in the workforce because they need the income. Others are balancing caregiving responsibilities, health concerns, or financial insecurity.

Hidden insight: Consumer spending captures only part of the picture. Older adults are also staffing workplaces, caring for family members, volunteering in their communities, mentoring colleagues, and supporting younger relatives financially. Much of that work never appears in GDP figures.

Takeaway: One of the world’s largest economies is already operating in plain sight.

Source: AARP, Stanford Center on Longevity, Maryland Department of Commerce

The G-Shaped Economy

Consumer confidence has fallen sharply. Spending hasn’t.

Why it matters: Market strategist Ed Yardeni believes part of the answer lies in what he calls a “G-shaped” economy — not a “K-shaped” one. The “G” stands for generational. Older Americans hold much of the country’s wealth and are increasingly helping children and grandchildren navigate housing costs, education expenses, childcare, and day-to-day financial pressures.

Real-world signal: Americans age 45 and older control nearly 90% of the nation’s wealth, according to Federal Reserve household data. Baby Boomers alone hold roughly 51% of U.S. wealth, valued at about $90 trillion. Consumer spending has remained surprisingly resilient even as affordability concerns continue to grow.

Yardeni argues that intergenerational financial support is helping younger households absorb economic pressures that might otherwise slow spending more dramatically.

Yes, but: Wealth remains unevenly distributed. Many older adults face rising healthcare costs, inflation, and the prospect of financing longer retirements than previous generations.

Hidden insight: Discussions about the Great Wealth Transfer usually focus on inheritances. Increasingly, wealth is moving while people are alive. Help with rent, down payments, childcare, tuition, and emergency expenses has become part of many families’ financial strategies.

Takeaway: The largest wealth transfer in history may arrive as a series of smaller transfers long before any estate is settled.

Source: USA Today

When Age Stops Predicting Life Stage

The oldest Baby Boomers are turning 80. The milestone no longer signals a single, predictable phase of life.

Why it matters: Previous generations often associated age 80 with retirement, reduced activity, and a narrower social world. Today’s octogenarians present a wider range of possibilities. Some remain in the workforce. Others volunteer, travel, create content online, or manage active social and civic lives. Chronological age still matters, but it explains less than it once did.

Real-world signal: The first Baby Boomers are reaching 80 while maintaining high rates of technology use, workforce participation, and community engagement. Adults 50 and older remain one of the fastest-growing segments of the labor force and account for a growing share of economic activity.

Yes, but: Health, wealth, education, housing, and access to care continue to shape what later life looks like. Longer lives create more opportunity, but not everyone starts from the same position.

Hidden insight: Age milestones once carried fairly predictable expectations. Today, two people born in the same year may have dramatically different lifestyles, ambitions, and levels of independence. Birthdays still mark time. They reveal much less about how someone actually lives.

Takeaway: Age tells us when someone was born. Life stage increasingly tells the more useful story.

Source: Yahoo Creators, AARP

The Purpose Problem Nobody Saves For

Retirement planning usually revolves around money. The transition often raises a different question: what fills the space once work is gone?

Why it matters: Work provides income, structure, routine, social interaction, and a sense of contribution. As people spend more years outside traditional careers, questions about purpose and identity become harder to avoid.

Real-world signal: After retiring and moving to Wisconsin, writer Wendy Wilson sat down with a blank sheet of paper and wrote, “Things I Like To Do.” Nothing came to mind. Years of work and responsibility had gradually crowded out many of her own interests.

• Wilson wrote in HuffPost, “What if I don’t know who I am when I’m not needed?”

Yes, but: Many retirees thrive. Greater flexibility and control over time can improve well-being. The transition tends to be smoother when people have existing hobbies, relationships, volunteer commitments, or community ties.

Hidden insight: Financial planning receives most of the attention because it is easier to measure. Purpose, belonging, and daily structure are harder to quantify. They still shape how people experience the decades that follow full-time work.

Takeaway: Retirement planning often starts with a balance sheet. It may work better when it also includes a calendar, a community, and a reason to get up in the morning.

Source: HuffPost, Fast Company

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

Rethink Aging With Us

This is for you and you’re in the right place:

• If you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond and not ready to fade out.

• If you’re a builder, strategist, or decision-maker trying to understand what aging really means for your product, team, city, or community.

• If you’re tired of “decline narratives” about age and are ready for something more honest, more useful, and more human.

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Aging Starts With the Stories People Repeat

People say things like “senior moment” without thinking much about it. The phrase lands anyway. So do comments like “you look good for your age” or “I’m too old for that now.”

Why it matters: Researchers studying aging increasingly focus on expectation and self-perception, not just biology. The messages people absorb about getting older affect confidence, recovery, memory, and willingness to stay engaged socially and professionally. Those beliefs accumulate over decades.

Real-world signal: A recent TIME feature examined the phrases aging researchers and advocates want people to stop using because they reinforce assumptions about decline, incompetence, or irrelevance.

• Yale researcher Becca Levy told TIME, “Those who take in more negative age beliefs are more likely to show worse physical, mental, and cognitive health outcomes.”

Yes, but: Changing language does not automatically change institutions. Hiring systems, healthcare settings, and media still reward youth-coded behavior and appearance. Many older adults continue adjusting themselves to fit those expectations.

Hidden insight: Most people encounter ageism long before they are old. By midlife, many already carry assumptions about what later life allows, how visible they should be, and whether reinvention is realistic.

Takeaway: The version of aging people expect later often starts forming decades earlier.

Source: TIME

The Suburban Hand-Off Isn’t Happening

A common housing prediction has lingered for years. That baby boomers would eventually leave suburban homes behind, opening space for younger families. The numbers no longer support a clean transition.

Why it matters: Many older adults are staying in place longer than expected. Younger households face rising costs, smaller living spaces, and delayed ownership while waiting for inventory that may never fully arrive. Divorce is adding another layer of strain for some Gen X households trying to rebuild financially in their 50s.

Real-world signal: A Globe and Mail analysis found that adults 55 and older own more than half of Canada’s single- and semi-detached homes. Researchers expect demand from younger generations and immigration to keep pressure on housing supply for decades. CBS6 Albany also reported on rising “gray divorce” pressures among Gen X adults dealing with housing costs, legal expenses, and retirement concerns at the same time.

• Researchers from Canada’s Missing Middle Initiative say aging-related turnover may ease some housing pressure, though not enough to remove the need for significant homebuilding.

Yes, but: Aging in place often improves stability, social connection, and health outcomes for older adults. The tension comes from housing systems built around shorter lifespans and more predictable family structures.

Hidden insight: The issue is no longer just supply. It is mobility. Many communities lack housing that supports transitions between caregiving, solo living, downsizing, and multigenerational life without forcing people out entirely.

Takeaway: The longer people live, the harder it becomes for housing to function like a simple generational relay race.

Sources: The Globe and Mail, CBS6 Albany

Midlife Is Breaking the Workplace Model

Career systems still assume a fairly linear adult life… school, work, retirement. More workers are aging into something a whole lot messier.

Why it matters: Many Gen X workers are paying student loans while helping children and supporting aging parents. Menopause, caregiving, financial stress, and health transitions increasingly affect job performance and retention.

Real-world signal: A Fortune essay reported that Gen X carries the highest debt burden in America, including average student loan balances above $38,000. Some employers now contribute to retirement accounts while workers prioritize loan repayment. Forbes argued that “life-stage leadership” is becoming a management issue, especially around menopause and caregiving.

• Shelley Zalis wrote in Forbes, “Most workplace systems were not built with life stages in mind.”

Yes, but: Many workplace benefits remain concentrated inside large companies. Employees also still hesitate to discuss caregiving strain, debt, or menopause openly because advancement often depends on appearing constantly available and unaffected.

Hidden insight: Longer lives are compressing multiple adult roles into the same decade. Midlife now includes financial recovery, caregiving, health adaptation, and career maintenance all at once.

Takeaway: The workplaces built for 30-year careers are struggling to absorb 100-year lives.

Sources: Fortune, Forbes

The New Retirement Question: When Is Life Supposed to Happen?

A growing number of people are reconsidering the old retirement equation: work hard first, enjoy life later. Longer lives complicate that timeline.

Why it matters: The “Die With Zero” philosophy has gained traction because it pushes people to think about timing, energy, and health alongside money. Some retirees are also relocating abroad to lower living costs and create more flexibility earlier in life.

Real-world signal: An Investopedia analysis explored how the “Die With Zero” approach encourages people to spend intentionally across different phases of adulthood instead of saving almost exclusively for retirement. Business Insider profiled a former pharmacist who retired to Mexico at 50 and encountered housing mistakes, exchange-rate surprises, and budgeting problems during her first year abroad.

• Certified financial planner Jill Fletcher told Investopedia, “Going from accumulating wealth to using your wealth can be quite a challenge for some fresh retirees.”

Yes, but: Long retirements still carry financial risk. Healthcare costs, inflation, currency shifts, and long-term care needs can disrupt even carefully planned budgets. Living abroad also requires adaptation that many people underestimate.

Hidden insight: Retirement planning increasingly revolves around usable years. Health, mobility, relationships, and energy now shape financial decisions almost as much as portfolio size.

Takeaway: People are becoming less willing to postpone meaningful experiences indefinitely in exchange for theoretical security later.

Sources: Investopedia, Business Insider

The Longevity Economy May Run Through the Pharmacy

GLP-1 drugs entered public discussion through weight loss. Their broader economic implications are starting to attract equal attention.

Why it matters: Governments, employers, and investors are paying closer attention to treatments that may extend healthier years of life. If fewer people develop obesity-related illnesses or chronic metabolic conditions, workforce participation and healthcare costs could shift with them.

Real-world signal: A Business Day analysis explored how widespread GLP-1 adoption could affect productivity, healthcare spending, and economic participation in South Africa and beyond. Interest around these drugs now extends well beyond medicine into insurance, food systems, and workplace planning.

• Stefan Swanepoel wrote in Business Day that GLP-1 adoption may “reshape industries” as healthier populations remain active longer and consumer behavior changes around food and wellness.

Yes, but: The treatments remain expensive and unevenly distributed. Long-term effects are still being studied, and access already tracks heavily along income lines. Public-health researchers also question how much pharmaceutical intervention can compensate for broader structural health problems.

Hidden insight: Longer healthy lives would change more than healthcare systems. They would alter assumptions around retirement age, career length, caregiving, and the timing of adulthood itself.

Takeaway: The economic value of longevity may depend less on lifespan and more on how long people stay healthy enough to participate fully.

Source: Business Day

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

Rethink Aging With Us

This is for you and you’re in the right place:

• If you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond and not ready to fade out.

• If you’re a builder, strategist, or decision-maker trying to understand what aging really means for your product, team, city, or community.

• If you’re tired of “decline narratives” about age and are ready for something more honest, more useful, and more human.

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Homes Are Becoming Family Safety Nets

The American housing market still assumes people age separately. Parents retire. Adult children move out. Care happens somewhere else. That model is breaking down.

Why it matters: Multigenerational housing is growing for practical reasons. Families are combining incomes, caregiving, and housing costs across generations. At the same time, most U.S. homes still aren’t designed for aging in place. Harvard’s Joint Center for Housing Studies reports that fewer than 4% include basic accessibility features.

Real-world signal: Multigenerational households grew to nearly 60 million Americans by 2021, four times higher than in 1971, according to Pew Research. More Gen X empty nesters are also downsizing into RV living to reduce costs and gain flexibility.

• Jessica Lautz, deputy economist and vice president of research at the National Association of Realtors, said, “Caring for older adults is the leading reason” Gen X buyers are purchasing multigenerational homes.

Yes, but: Shared living can create friction around privacy, caregiving expectations, and finances. RV living also depends heavily on mobility, health, and reliable internet access.

Hidden insight: Homes are becoming support systems built to absorb caregiving, income sharing, and longer periods of family overlap.

Takeaway: The most valuable home may soon be the one that adapts best across decades of life.

Source: MarketWatch, New York Times

The Hidden Cost of Longer Lives Keeps Landing on Women

Many families already know who will become the caregiver long before anyone says it directly. Across the U.S., daughters continue absorbing most elder-care responsibilities while trying to maintain careers, savings, and households of their own. Some reduce work hours. Others stop saving for retirement entirely.

Why it matters: Longer lives are extending caregiving demands inside families, much of it unpaid. Women now provide roughly 61% of unpaid elder caregiving in the U.S., according to reporting cited by Business Insider.

Real-world signal: Unpaid family caregiving costs American women an estimated $295,000 in lost wages and retirement savings over a lifetime. One woman interviewed by Business Insider became her mother’s caregiver in her 20s and said she now worries constantly about her own retirement security.

• Hannah, a caregiver interviewed by Business Insider, said, “If you don’t have a daughter or somebody who’s willing to step up and just do what has to be done, there’s no system.”

Yes, but: Many families prefer home-based care over institutional settings, especially with nursing home costs exceeding $129,000 annually for private rooms.

Hidden insight: The care economy already exists. Most of it operates quietly inside homes.

Takeaway: Planning for longevity increasingly means planning for caregiving years before a crisis arrives.

Source: Market Realist, WVASFM / NPR

Work Is Becoming Part of Healthy Aging

Retirement planning usually focuses on money. New research is putting attention on cognition. UC Irvine economists studying Americans between ages 51 and 75 found measurable declines in cognitive performance after workforce exit, while sustained employment correlated with stronger cognitive function over time.

Why it matters: Work structures more than income. Jobs create routines, social interaction, and daily problem-solving. As careers extend longer, the relationship between work and cognitive health is becoming harder to ignore.

Real-world signal: UC Irvine researchers analyzed data from 40,000 participants in the Health and Retirement Study and found “substantial declines” in cognition following major employment disruptions. At the same time, many Gen X workers are entering later midlife carrying debt, caregiving pressure, and financial anxiety.

• David Neumark, a UC Irvine economics professor and coauthor of the study, told Fortune, “We should really think about the potential consequences of a really large-scale decline in employment.”

Yes, but: Many jobs accelerate stress rather than protect against decline. Physically demanding work, unstable schedules, and age discrimination make longer careers difficult for many workers.

Hidden insight: Flexible schedules and phased retirement may increasingly become cognitive-health tools, not just workplace perks.

Takeaway: Financial planning for later life increasingly overlaps with cognitive planning.

Source: Fortune, AFR

Older Adults Are Holding More Economic Power for Longer

The public conversation around aging often centers on dependency. The underlying economics tell a more complicated story. Adults over 45 now control nearly 89% of U.S. wealth, according to Federal Reserve household data. In Italy, older adults own most of the country’s real estate wealth and generate nearly 68% of national consumption.

Why it matters: Longer lives are extending economic influence across additional decades. Older adults increasingly shape housing markets, small-business ownership, consumer spending, and wealth transfer patterns.

Real-world signal: Nearly one million Italian small and medium-sized businesses are managed by adults over 65, representing an estimated $340 billion in GDP activity. In Australia, advocacy groups pushed back against narratives portraying all older adults as wealthy property owners while many retirees continue facing poverty and housing insecurity.

• Patricia Sparrow, chief executive of the Council on the Ageing, told The Senior, “The stereotype of the ‘rich boomer’ is lazy, divisive and wrong.”

Yes, but: Wealth distribution inside older populations remains highly uneven. Renters and lower-income retirees often face major instability despite rising aggregate wealth.

Hidden insight: Older adults are remaining economically active, influential, and financially responsible for others far longer than many institutions anticipated.

Takeaway: Future debates around housing, taxation, and retirement will increasingly revolve around overlapping generations sharing economic pressure at the same time.

Source: Il Sole 24 Ore, USA Today, The Senior

Longevity Planning Is Expanding Beyond Health Metrics

The longevity conversation is moving into everyday decisions — where people live, who they rely on, and whether their environments still work decades later. Researchers at MIT AgeLab recently introduced the Longevity Preparedness Index, a planning tool that measures caregiving readiness, social connection, neighborhood design, and daily routines alongside financial preparedness.

Why it matters: Most retirement planning still focuses heavily on savings and healthcare costs. Longer lives also reshape identity, mobility, relationships, and community needs over time.

Real-world signal: The MIT AgeLab assessment asks participants questions about caregiving access, transportation, walkability, and social support. Michael Clinton, after interviewing more than 70 longevity researchers and health experts, said maintaining identities outside work becomes increasingly important later in life.

• Laura Carstensen, founding director of the Stanford Center on Longevity, said, “We really need to raise the bar and begin to daydream about what it means to be 100 and doing really well.”

Yes, but: Many longevity products and services remain expensive or inaccessible outside affluent populations.

Hidden insight: Longer lives are creating planning demands that previous generations rarely faced at scale.

Takeaway: Longevity planning now reaches into everyday decisions that once had little connection to aging at all.

Source: WVASFM / NPR, AOL / Men’s Health

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

Rethink Aging With Us

This is for you and you’re in the right place:

• If you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond and not ready to fade out.

• If you’re a builder, strategist, or decision-maker trying to understand what aging really means for your product, team, city, or community.

• If you’re tired of “decline narratives” about age and are ready for something more honest, more useful, and more human.

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The Layoff That Breaks the Timeline

If you lose a job in your 30s or 40s, there’s usually time to recover. In your 60s, the same disruption lands differently. It can shift your income, your healthcare, and your timeline all at once.

Why it matters: Late-career job loss affects more than income. It changes access to healthcare, delays savings goals, and forces new decisions about when to claim benefits. Many plans assume stable employment through the final stretch. That assumption no longer holds.

Real-world signal: After being laid off from Intel, a technician in his 60s named Brad Jenkins spent months searching for work while exploring new training paths and business ideas, despite expecting to retire from the company.

• “I thought I’d retire there, but I was wrong,” said Brad.

Yes, but: Some industries still value experience, and reskilling can open new paths. The timeline to recover is shorter later in life.

Hidden insight: What makes this kind of disruption so destabilizing isn’t just the job loss. It’s how many other systems are tied to that one role. Income, healthcare, and long-term planning all move together, so when one shifts, everything else has to be recalculated in real time.

Takeaway: Losing a job late in your career doesn’t just change your work. It can quietly reset the rest of your life.

Source: Business Insider

The Exit Is Still Baked In

You might assume that if you want to keep working into your 60s or 70s, that option will be there. For many people, it isn’t. The decision often gets made long before you’re ready.

Why it matters: Career systems still assume a peak followed by exit. That assumption shapes hiring, promotions, and layoffs, even when it’s not stated directly. Experience often shows up as cost in budgeting conversations, not as accumulated advantage.

Real-world signal: Some companies avoid direct performance critiques and instead change the conditions around a role, such as moving long-tenured employees into unfamiliar territories where results are harder to sustain.

• “They will move that person out into another territory where they don’t know anybody,” said employment attorney Mahir Nasir.

Yes, but: Higher salaries and benefit costs influence these decisions. Organizations under pressure often look first at roles tied to long tenure.

Hidden insight: This isn’t usually framed as a decision about age. It shows up as restructuring, realignment, or shifting priorities. Over time, those small moves add up and make staying much harder than leaving.

Takeaway: You rarely get pushed out all at once. It happens gradually, then suddenly feels inevitable.

Source: Fast Company

A 100-Year Life Running on a 65-Year System

You’re likely planning for a longer life than your parents had. The systems around you aren’t built for that timeline. That gap shows up slowly, then all at once.

Why it matters: Financial systems, labor models, and healthcare structures were built around shorter timelines. Today’s longer lives expose the mismatch. Individuals absorb more of the risk when systems don’t adjust.

Real-world signal: Economic and financial systems continue to reflect shorter, linear life paths, even as longevity increases and careers become more complex.

• “Economic systems designed for shorter lives are misaligned with longer, more complex life courses,” according to the Milken Institute.

Yes, but: Policy changes and institutional redesign take time. Most people still have to operate inside systems that weren’t built for their reality.

Hidden insight: What’s happening here is a slow handoff. Systems that once absorbed long-term risk are pushing more of that responsibility onto individuals, often without clear guidance on how to manage it.

Takeaway: If your life stretches longer than the system expects, you’re the one left figuring out how to make it work.

Source: Milken Institute

Decisions Get Made Before You Ask for Help

When something changes — health, finances, where to live — you probably don’t start by calling an expert. You search, read, compare, and form an opinion first.

Why it matters: Access to information is shifting how decisions happen. People arrive at conversations with context and early conclusions already in place.

Real-world signal: Smartphone adoption among adults over 50 has reached 90%, alongside growing use of AI tools to guide decisions about health, finances, and housing.

• “This is not a technology story. It is a decision-making story,” said Dr. Joe Coughlin.

Yes, but: Information can point you in a direction, but it doesn’t account for personal nuance. Complex decisions still require interpretation.

Hidden insight: By the time someone talks to an advisor, they’re often no longer exploring options. They’re narrowing them. The direction has already started to form.

Takeaway: Better decisions depend on how you think before the conversation even begins.

Source: LinkedIn

Parts of Life Your Retirement Plans Can’t See

Most financial plans focus on one question: do you have enough money? That leaves out other variables that shape how you actually live… like your health, your home, and the people around you.

Why it matters: Planning often centers on savings targets. Longer lives introduce additional factors that influence daily life and long-term stability.

Real-world signal: The Longevity Preparedness Index measures readiness across eight life domains beyond finances, with early results averaging 60 out of 100.

• “We want to look at all those big and little things that we take for granted in life,” said MIT AgeLab director Joe Coughlin.

Yes, but: These factors are harder to quantify. Health changes, relationships, and living environments don’t fit neatly into financial models.

Hidden insight: Most people aren’t underprepared because they ignored planning. They’re underprepared because the plan was too narrow. It captured the numbers but missed the conditions that actually shape how those numbers play out.

Takeaway: A solid financial plan helps, but it won’t carry you if the rest of your life isn’t built to support it.

Source: NPR

One Career Was Always the Wrong Model

You were probably taught to pick a path, commit to it, and build upward over time. That model starts to stretch when your working life spans multiple decades.

Why it matters: Full-time employment ties income and identity to one organization. That structure limits flexibility across longer careers.

Real-world signal: Demand for fractional leadership roles grew sixfold in Singapore in 2025, reflecting a shift toward more flexible and distributed work structures.

• “The idea of ceasing active intellectual contribution at 55… is not just personally deflating. It is a colossal waste,” said one executive working in a fractional model.

Yes, but: This model depends on networks and positioning. Not everyone has equal access to these opportunities.

Hidden insight: Work is starting to look less like a ladder and more like a mix of roles over time. People are stitching together income, purpose, and flexibility instead of relying on a single path.

Takeaway: A single career track makes less sense when your working life keeps expanding.

Source: Business Times

We Added Decades, Not a New Life Structure

If you compare your life trajectory to your parents’, the timelines don’t line up anymore. People are living longer, but still operating within older expectations.

Why it matters: Longer lifespans create additional phases of life. Social systems and expectations haven’t fully adapted.

Real-world signal: By 2034, older adults will outnumber children in the United States, marking a major demographic shift with broad economic and social implications.

• “We’re at the tipping point of a transformative longevity revolution,” said longevity expert Ken Dychtwald.

Yes, but: Health, income, and access vary widely, which shapes how those extra years are experienced.

Hidden insight: We’re stretching an old framework across a much longer life. That creates friction in how people think about work, identity, and what comes next.

Takeaway: Living longer doesn’t come with a clear blueprint for how those extra years should work.

Source: Generations / ASA

The Tension No One Wants to Touch

At some point, every long career runs into the same question: how long should someone stay in a role where performance matters?

Why it matters: Organizations need both experience and renewal. As careers extend, balancing those priorities becomes harder.

Real-world signal: In medicine, practitioners over 70 are more likely to face complaints, raising questions about how to evaluate performance in late-career roles.

• “Ageing means change, and ultimately, it means a decline in capability,” according to commentary in the Australian Financial Review.

Yes, but: Experience often improves judgment, and performance varies widely between individuals.

Hidden insight: Most systems don’t have precise ways to evaluate capability over time. Without better tools, they fall back on blunt signals that don’t capture the full picture.

Takeaway: Longer careers force a question most institutions still don’t know how to answer well.

Source: AFR

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

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We Added Decades and Didn’t Add a Plan

Longer lives are no longer hypothetical. They’re already here. What hasn’t kept up is everything built around them. Healthcare, work, and financial planning still follow assumptions from a much shorter lifespan.

Why it matters: Life expectancy has increased significantly. Systems such as healthcare, work, and retirement planning still reflect shorter lifespans. That gap creates friction across nearly every major life decision.

Real-world signal: In the U.S., 80 million people are over 60, with global populations aging rapidly. Advances in medicine and technology continue to extend lifespan and healthspan.

• “We’ve barely begun to innovate for what those extra decades should look and feel like,” Ken Dychtwald writes. He puts it more bluntly elsewhere: our systems are still built for a short-life world.

Yes, but: Longer lifespans increase exposure to risks such as cognitive decline, financial strain, and social isolation.

Hidden insight: We didn’t just add years. We stretched a system that wasn’t designed to hold them. That tension shows up in small decisions long before it becomes obvious.

Takeaway: You’re planning a longer life using tools built for a shorter one.

Source: Fortune

The Ownership Gap Hiding in Plain Sight

Across the country, business owners are quietly approaching a decision point: transition or close. Many of these companies have been running for decades. Few have a clear next owner.

Why it matters: Economic discussions often center on startups. Existing businesses support jobs, supply chains, and local economies. Their continuity depends on ownership transfer.

Real-world signal: McKinsey estimates six million small and medium-sized businesses will transition ownership by 2035. More than one million are viable for sale, representing up to $5 trillion in value.

• “How the United States builds pathways for ownership transfer will determine whether this moment leads to widespread loss or a new era of economic renewal,” the McKinsey report notes.

Yes, but: Many owners lack formal succession plans. Buyers face financing and operational barriers.

Hidden insight: There’s no shortage of businesses… just a shortage of handoffs.

Takeaway: The opportunity isn’t always to start something new. Sometimes it’s to keep something valuable going.

Source: McKinsey

Good Decisions, Bad Timing

A lot of financial advice assumes a level playing field. In reality, timing shapes outcomes more than most people realize. The same decisions can lead to very different results depending on when they happen.

Why it matters: Wealth accumulation depends on when key financial decisions occur. Market cycles affect housing, employment, and debt.

Real-world signal: Gen X wealth dropped about 40% during the 2007–09 recession, driven by housing exposure near peak prices. Today, overall wealth levels have recovered to roughly where boomers were at similar ages.

• “Many were… buying at or near peak prices,” said housing economist Odeta Kushi, describing how losses compounded early.

Yes, but: Student debt remains a factor for many, affecting long-term planning.

Hidden insight: It’s possible to make reasonable choices and still fall behind expectations. Sequence has a way of quietly rewriting outcomes.

Takeaway: Where you start matters more than most systems admit.

Source: Wall Street Journal

The Experience Surplus No One Is Deploying

There’s a large pool of experience sitting inside midlife careers. This includes knowledge built over decades, often applied in narrow ways. Meanwhile, flexible work continues to expand in parallel.

Why it matters: Work systems increasingly reward specialization, pattern recognition, and the ability to navigate ambiguity. These are skills built over time, yet many remain underutilized.

Real-world signal: Only 23% to 33% of Gen X participates in the gig economy. Those who do earn more consistently and outperform on stability.

• “Gen-X professionals… have spent decades building deep professional expertise, wide networks, and hard-won institutional knowledge,” Jennifer Knowles writes.

Yes, but: Time is limited. Many are balancing peak career demands with caregiving responsibilities.

Hidden insight: Experience doesn’t automatically translate into opportunity. It often needs a new context to become visible again.

Takeaway: A lot of value is already there, but it just isn’t being used in new ways.

Source: Inc.

AI Has a Design Problem

AI is moving quickly, but access to it isn’t evenly distributed. Many people are willing to learn, yet the way these tools are introduced often determines who actually does.

Why it matters: AI tools require onboarding, context, and trust. Many systems assume prior familiarity with digital workflows, which creates barriers.

Real-world signal: A global Ernst & Young survey found 38% of adults aged 60–85 are actively learning AI. Only 15% report no interest.

• “Working to ensure no one is left behind is key to unlocking the potential of this vital demographic,” said Gillian Hinde of Ernst & Young. At AARP, Alex Glazebrook sees the same pattern: older adults are curious and want to learn more.

Yes, but: Digital skill gaps and privacy concerns slow adoption.

Hidden insight: Interest isn’t the bottleneck. The way tools are introduced and supported makes the difference.

Takeaway: People adopt what feels usable, not just what’s available.

Source: EY

The Quiet Burnout of the Always-Reliable

Some of the most dependable people at work carry the heaviest load over time. They keep showing up, keep delivering, and often absorb more responsibility without much adjustment elsewhere.

Why it matters: Long careers require sustained capacity. Midlife often brings overlapping demands from work, family, and health.

Real-world signal: Cigna research shows strong performance alongside low energy levels. Only 29% report high enthusiasm at work. One worker described the constraint more plainly: there isn’t enough time left for basic health routines.

• “Gen X is a highly capable, dependable cohort… with tremendous value still to deliver,” said Stacie Lukasiak of Cigna Healthcare.

Yes, but: Time constraints limit participation in health and support programs.

Hidden insight: You can look fully engaged from the outside while quietly running on less capacity than before.

Takeaway: Consistency can hide strain longer than most people expect.

Source: Cigna

The Customer Brands Skipped Is Now Their Best One

For a long time, midlife consumers weren’t the focus of product design or marketing. That’s starting to shift as spending patterns become harder to ignore.

Why it matters: Gen X is in peak earning years. Their preferences reflect experience and evolving needs that were previously underserved.

Real-world signal: Gen X is projected to spend more on beauty and skincare than any other age group. Many in this group approach products differently. As one makeup expert put it, they want proof before they buy.

• “Where are the 40- to 60-year-olds?” asked brand founder Sarah Creal, pointing to a long-standing gap in the market.

Yes, but: Increased targeting can introduce new pressures around aging.

Hidden insight: Being seen by the market comes with trade-offs. Visibility brings relevance, but also expectation.

Takeaway: Attention from brands tends to follow spending power.

Source: Elle

When Longevity Becomes Something You Train For

Health is starting to look less like maintenance and more like an ongoing practice. The idea of performance now includes cognition, mobility, and long-term resilience.

Why it matters: People are living longer, and expectations around performance are shifting. Measurement is becoming more common across different aspects of health.

Real-world signal: The Super Age Games measure strength, cognition, metabolic health, and social connection.

• “It’s about adding life to your years,” said founder David Harry Stewart. At the Buck Institute, Dr. Eric Verdin frames it differently: people can finally see where they stand.

Yes, but: Access depends on time, resources, and health literacy.

Hidden insight: Once something can be measured, it starts to shape behavior—even outside the original context.

Takeaway: The way you track your health begins to influence how you live.

Source: AI Journal

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

Rethink Aging With Us

This is for you and you’re in the right place:

• If you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond and not ready to fade out.

• If you’re a builder, strategist, or decision-maker trying to understand what aging really means for your product, team, city, or community.

• If you’re tired of “decline narratives” about age and are ready for something more honest, more useful, and more human.

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The Readiness Gap Extends Beyond Money

You can do everything you were told. Save consistently, invest wisely, avoid major mistakes… and still feel uncertain about what comes next. That’s showing up for people in their 40s, 50s, and beyond as they try to picture what daily life will actually look like over the next few decades.

Why it matters: Retirement planning focused on financial outcomes for decades. Longer lives expose everything that model left out. Things such as care needs, housing fit, social connection, and daily structure. Planning now spans multiple systems that rarely connect in practice.

Real-world signal: About 80% of U.S. households age 60+ cannot cover long-term care or absorb a financial shock. Most homes lack basic accessibility features. New assessment tools now score readiness across areas like health, housing, and social connection, revealing gaps that financial plans miss.

• “Financial preparedness is necessary but is no longer sufficient on its own,” researchers behind the longevity preparedness work said.

• Joseph Coughlin of MIT AgeLab described the goal as focusing on “not just more years, but better years.”

Yes, but: Early planning depends on income, time, and access to guidance. Many households face rising costs for care, housing, and healthcare without coordinated support.

Hidden insight: Planning has shifted from a financial exercise to a coordination problem across multiple parts of life.

Takeaway: A retirement plan that centers only on savings leaves major gaps unaddressed.

Source: Fortune, McKnight’s Senior Living

The 100-Year Life Runs on Outdated Systems

Think about how your life has been structured so far: school early, work in the middle, then some version of stepping back later. That sequence still shapes expectations, even as people live decades longer than previous generations. The mismatch shows up in career pivots that feel late, skills that need updating, and long stretches of life without a clear script.

Why it matters: Education concentrates in youth. Work peaks in midlife. Later years remain loosely defined. That structure creates pressure points as careers extend and skill demands change more frequently.

Real-world signal: Average life expectancy in the U.S. increased by roughly 30 years over the past century. At the same time, 38% of older adults report actively learning AI tools, often through self-directed methods rather than formal training systems.

• “The problem is the world we live in was built for 50-year-long lives, not century-long lives,” said Laura Carstensen of the Stanford Center on Longevity.

• Ernst & Young researchers note that organizations investing in age-inclusive design “will have the competitive edge.”

Yes, but: Training opportunities remain uneven. Many workers rely on informal learning because structured programs do not reach them or fit their schedules.

Hidden insight: Institutional timelines have not adjusted to longer careers. Individuals are filling the gap on their own.

Takeaway: Sustaining a longer working life depends on continuous skill-building, often outside formal systems.

Source: Forbes, EY

Longevity Is Shifting How Wealth and Influence Accumulate

If you’ve ever wondered why housing feels harder to access or why certain policies seem slow to change, part of the answer sits in demographics. Longer lives mean people hold onto assets, influence, and decision-making roles for more years than before. Over time, that changes how opportunity moves through the system.

Why it matters: Wealth compounds across more years. Political participation remains high among older voters. These patterns influence housing, public spending, and economic mobility.

Real-world signal: Americans over 55 hold 74% of national wealth, compared with 56% in 1989. Younger households hold a smaller share than previous generations at similar ages.

• “The color of money is now gray,” The Atlantic wrote in describing the shift.

Yes, but: Financial security varies widely among older adults. Healthcare costs, caregiving responsibilities, and housing expenses continue to strain many households.

Hidden insight: Longer lives extend existing economic patterns over time rather than resetting them.

Takeaway: Resource distribution across age groups will shape how longer lives are experienced.

Source: The Atlantic

Behavior Around Aging Is Changing Fast

Look around and you’ll see people in their 60s, 70s, and beyond living in ways that don’t match the old expectations. Some are still working, others are traveling, starting projects, or reshaping their routines entirely. The shift is visible, even if the systems around it haven’t fully caught up.

Why it matters: More people are working longer, living independently, and shaping their routines without following earlier expectations tied to retirement or family structure.

Real-world signal: The first wave of baby boomers turning 80 are pushing for changes in healthcare, housing, and autonomy. Many individuals in their 70s report high levels of independence and satisfaction. Survey data shows 73% of adults feel positive about midlife, and 71% believe their best years are current or ahead.

• “They are reinventing old age,” said Joseph Coughlin of MIT AgeLab.

• One woman in her 70s described her experience simply: “I love not having to answer to anybody.”

Survey researchers found that people often experience aging differently than cultural narratives suggest.

Yes, but: Health, income, and access to support still shape available choices. Some households face constraints that limit flexibility.

Hidden insight: Personal decisions about work, relationships, and lifestyle are changing ahead of institutional support.

Takeaway: Expectations for later life are shifting based on how people actually live, not how systems define the stage.

Source: Wall Street Journal, SELF, Good Men Project

Location Plays a Growing Role in How We Age

Where you live already shapes your daily life through costs, routines, and access to services. Over time, it also shapes your health in ways that are easy to overlook. As climate patterns shift and infrastructure strains, those differences become more visible, especially in later years.

Why it matters: Climate, infrastructure, and housing quality affect exposure to heat, pollution, and extreme weather. These factors influence long-term health, especially for older adults.

Real-world signal: Climate change is projected to contribute to 250,000 additional deaths annually between 2030 and 2050. Older populations face higher risks from heat and air quality. Differences in local environments can translate into significant gaps in life expectancy.

• “Climate change acts as a risk multiplier on longevity,” global health researchers said.

Yes, but: Relocating or upgrading housing is not feasible for many households. Access to resilient infrastructure varies widely.

Hidden insight: Health outcomes in later life increasingly depend on local conditions.

Takeaway: Where someone lives will shape how well they age over time.

Source: World Economic Forum

Until next time,

— Bryan Kelly

Rethink Aging With Us

This is for you and you’re in the right place:

• If you’re in your 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond and not ready to fade out.

• If you’re a builder, strategist, or decision-maker trying to understand what aging really means for your product, team, city, or community.

• If you’re tired of “decline narratives” about age and are ready for something more honest, more useful, and more human.

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